Date men and women from United States / California / Folsom, 55 year old

Date someone special from United States. I am a driven small business owner who does some traveling and is lucky enough to love his work. I am ambitious and know what I want. I get to bring technology to contractors and teach them how to move into the 21st century (sometimes kicking and screaming) and use our software to better their business. I love to be challenged in every aspect of life. I want to have someone to share all of this with that I can trust. I am very lucky to have such great positive friends that keep me laughing which is important to me.
I would like to meet a confident, secure, attractive person who is happy and active. She should have energy, enjoy laughing and like to travel. I am looking for somebody that is breathing and preferably not in any type of relationship, such as marriage, a cult, or prison. Did I mention a sense of humor is important?

Meet men and women from United States. I believe in open, honest, and direct communication. I care about other people and how they feel, I treat others the way I would want to be treated. Communication is the key to any relationship working, be able to listen with an open mind and hear and understand the other person. Be willing to live life and create your own destiny. I don't judge others or try to controll them, as that is not my job, and would not want to be controlled. There should be an even balance in life, when this is achieved life is good for all and it is very enjoyable. I believe in giving others their own space and trust people.
I am ready to find that special person to share things with in my life, someone who likes to travel and discover new places and things with, that does not want to just settle for things in life, but believes in going after it with passion. I have a lot to offer the right woman, I have integrity, honesty, loyalty, passion, compassion, and the ability to commuincate feelings and emotions.
I am looking for someone who is comfortable in their own skin, is a good communicator, knows what she wants and is not afraid to say what that is. Can be strong and independent, but is willing to lean a strong shoulder and share her feelings when needed. Likes to travel and is easy going, willing to talk through issues. Willing to start a new chapeter in life and leave the drama behind.

Date a soulmate from United States. I have only been out here since Oct '09.Lived and loved my whole life in the awesome city of Chicago so I am in need of someone to show me their favorites.Since my workday begins at 4:45am and is over at 1:00 pm I am available to explore this wonderland of northern California during prime time.Music clubs,restaurants,dives and diners,bike trails,fishing holes,hiking paths as I am just a "babe in the woods"Ha!Kid inside a mans body with an edge but can behave when necessary.My touchstone is my gorgeous 21 y.o daughter, who is a junior at Colorado Univ. in Boulder,Co. Who I adore!

I am looking for a woman who truly loves what a man is and what makes him tick not just what he can do for you or where he can take you or buy you.A woman that loves the way we can be a little silly and goofy while trying to navigate life as long as we mean well and are well intentioned.Truly supportive!Wouldl like a laid back but not a lazy woman.Or one who can't get it together to go out in a half hour or less,when going somewhere casual.Would love to meet a woman who is nuturing and truly kind.Must love live music,cocktails,adventures in NorCal ,hates tobacco.Looking for a friendship with someone who "gets me" for now.Someone to enjoy the presence of with out being under a magnifying glass to see if "this is the one".Looking for someone who I find attractive enough to look forward to seeing again to experience the things I listed in the column on the left side of the page,that I enjoy doing in my free time.By"attracted to" I don't care how pretty a women is on the outside,if she is ugly on the inside I won't stay attracted to her.If true friendship should develope into something more?awesome!I am not a player nor am I fearful of commitment in general, having kept a promise and made a major committment to move out here and get married 3 1/2 years ago,only to see things not work out So it's a little too soon to be in a committed relationship right now.Please don't be mad at me for fudging my age as I am a bit north of my listed age.My photos are all within the last year and a half so you be the judge ;) Thanks,Steve
CHEMISTRY:
I Adore A Woman Who Is Real But:
I am a free spirit so a controlling,manipulative woman is a dealbreaker.Also a woman who speaks without thinking first,is to me,is not exibiting "spontaneity", but a lack of character and wisdom."Loose lips sink ships"as the saying goes.So if any of the above applies to you bye,bye and good luck in your search.There is nothing I won't do for a woman who is truly kind,supportive and is'nt a "what have you done for me lately"kinda gal.PLEASE be a good listener.I am not that chatty and tend to think things thru so when I am communicating my feelings or making a point I need to know your're there with me and being genuinely interested in what I have to say...or not,but if "or not" then we probably have little in common.I have great respect and appreciation for good women and always put their needs first.I love doing the little things and giving of myself and my time when I know that her heart is in the right place.I have a dry sense of humor, sometimes, and can kid around with a straight face.Love irony and "play on words"and love to be playful must be fun enough to play along and give it right back in my face,Lol!
:CHEMISTRY:
To me it's all about that kiss.You know the one
where you just don't want to stop for fear of
not feeling that way again.Like the great dream
that you don't want to wake up from.The kiss
where you get so lost in the moment that when
you finally release each other from your oh so
tight embrace and open your eyes to each
others face it takes awhile for your eyes to
re-focus and the fire in your bodies to die down,
and once again you reaquaint yourselves with your surroundings, hopeful (kinda) nobody noticed ;).To me,anyway,that's
Chemistry! And I want it! Steve albacore51 at ya

Meet people from United States. As the title implies my passion at this time is playing golf. That isn't to say that there is no room for a special someone when she comes along. I do enjoy other things in life. I enjoy spending time with my family...eating is a wonderful past time, whether at a nice restaurant, a hole in the wall joint, or cooking for myself or my friends.....drinking a nice bottle of wine or the $1.99 stuff from Trade Joe's is good too!! I am a easygoing person who is loyal to his friends but understands that family comes first. I will say what is on my mind, but only in a nice way. I can be sarcastic at times but only in fun. I am not here to hurt anyone. I've learned over the years that communication next to honesty is the most important thing in having a great relationship. I am interested in finding someone to be my equal. She knows when to be assertive or when not to say anything; she is independent but will be there for me; she is flexible to be dressed to the"9's" for that special evening or in shorts and a tee shirt while getting dirty in the yard. Since I am into sports, golfing and the gym, it would be nice that you are too! I am not into playing games when it comes to relationships. Being happy and single is ok but having someone to share your life would be great! At this point in my life, I don't need anyone who is into mind games. I would expect the same thing from my friends and my significant other. If we meet and the sparks aren't there , there is no harm in saying so. Maybe we can each say we've found a new friend. After all...that is what dating is all about...right??

Date people from United States. I laugh easily ....love music...like good conversation ...like to cook for a man ....but don't think I don't like to eat out cause I DO!! Lol..I do like to go out to hear country music by my favorite local band ( THE CHRIS GARDNER BAND ) but most nights prefer to be home cuddling with someone special watching TV or a movie..or just playing with my dogs
Here's a few quick things about me
I prefer jeans over a dress
Bar-B- Q over fancy dinner party
Country music over opera
Summer over winter
any other info we will find out over time after all we do need something to talk about on our first date : ) ...
I don't have any" MUST HAVES" in a man... A sence of humor is alway a good thing ...if you like country music that's FABULOUS!! But if not at least put up with it...I am looking for a LTR..there I said it ....yes I want a man who wants to be with just one woman ME!!!!!.... LOL are you out there .... I sure hope so
The only must not in a man is NO SMOKERS PLEASE!!
If you want to know more about me send me email So we can start a conversation