Date men and women from United States / California / Encinitas, 54 year old

Date someone special from Encinitas, United States. If you are looking for an average good guy, good for you but that's just not me. Nothing average. I believe in going hard, some times you win and some times you crash and burn. Will most times you crash and burn but what a great flame.
Let me tell you a little story. When I was learning to snowboard I went flying down the hill (mostly because I did not know how to slow down) hit a hard front side turn. Stuck my right arm into the snow, it stuck deep into the snow and I dislocated my shoulder. Laying in the snow not wanting the rescue guys to come cart me away. I managed to pop my shoulder back in, cool. So it was still sore, but back up the hill I went for another run. Again flying down the hill, this time hitting a hard backside turn (because I have to protect shoulder right?) this time planting my left arm in the snow (sound familiar?) yup you guessed it. Bam dislocated my left shoulder “#^%^$&&” . So I’m on my back in the snow both arms laying in limp at my sides. It hurts like hell and all I can do is laugh. That says more about me than anything else that I can say. Live well, love hard and laugh until snot shoots out your nose. :)

Meet a woman from Encinitas, United States. Character, commitment, integrity, passion - all important but hard to find. I would love to find someone with a positive spirit, can be supportive when times get rough, and someone who brings out the best in people and relationships ... helps me be the best version of me.
Each day is a gift - look for what is working and go in that direction. I believe a great relationship takes time and I am willing to wait for someone with matching morals and beliefs. I don't give up easily and I'm a little on the old-fashioned side. I don't like self-importance, arrogance, pride, overly-opinionated or an inflated ego. I am attracted to a kind, compassionate and warm spirit with a big smile.
I try to see both sides in any situation - I am open-minded and optimistic about life and love. I try to resolved conflict when it flares up (and it will) and I don't run from it and would expect the same in return. I am happy living on my own and hope you are too, but would be nice to find someone to share the next 30 years (country song.) Chemistry is always important but trust and mutual respect is more lasting and makes the chemistry that much better. I am a loyal friend, a good listener and sounding board when needed but lighthearted and have no problem laughing at myself. A great sense of humor helps lightens any mood.
Help me discover the things I am wanting in a relationship but didn't even know.

Date people from Encinitas, United States. People love me because I always smile and have a good words for all situations, I love working by myself because make a challange in life and when I get the gol I really celebrate because make a family happy is my goal. I enjoy my family and I love celebrate Christmas with them.

Meet a soulmate from Encinitas, United States. My priorities are my Christian faith, my family and my friends. I come from this rather large very smart, interesting, educated, amusing, fun, nature and sports loving family. Everybody is good at things and no one is a snob about anything. I really like that about them. So i guess that is the kind of person i am and the kind of person i enjoy. I value kindness, integrity, warmth, honesty, and an interesting mind, and it works best if people value those things in me. And I love living by water. Which I usually mange to do. I became a Christian when I was 14 and have been committed to that faith ever since. Oh, and no one ever said I was boring. I am a fun person with serious values if that is any help.
I learned to snow ski when i was 4, board surf when i was seven. skin dive when i was 6, and my first back pack trip was about then too. I was even a ski instructor in my twenties and have river rafted on three rivers. . Before kyaks became popular, we once all tried to catch 4-5 foot waves in an aluminum fishing canoe. That is my real personality Unfortunately, I sustained some injuries (not from doing anyting fun but from people hitting me with cars) and so i can't do the sports i love. But I still love the outdoors and participate as much as i can. i still love camping and the ocean. Since some people have asked, I do not look hurt or injured in any way. You would not know, I was hurt unless I told you. Even then, people do not believe me. The benefit of good genetics and a lifetime of exercise, and a healthy lifestyle, I guess.
Would really like to go on that last first date, but the right person is more important than a person.
I have been blessed with amazing friends and interesting work. I was a teacher, worked in mental health and I had my own practice for 8 years in neurological rehabilitaion . i am taking a break from that right now because of some health complications from the injuries i mentioned. That has also impacted me financially. So if that is a problem for anyone, i understand. I just want to be up frront about that.
I do hope to go back to making contributions in that field. It is very interesting and rewarding work.
I like things to be fun and interesting, but also relaxing. i have a logical mind but a warm, encouraging and affectionate nature. A lot of people mentioned a healthy lifestyle. i sort of ended up knowing a lot about nutrition and specialize in really good tasting organic recipes. But I am not a health nazi and do not tell anyone what to do about their lifestyle or anything else for that matter.
Once, instead of thinking about what i thought i wanted in a relationship, i thought about what had worked in the past. So based on the principle that past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior i came up with 6 things all my long term ( like 10-20 plus year) friendships had in common 1. They were super fun to be with 2. They were all committed to doing the right thing. 3. They were always there if i needed them 4. We shared a christian faith 5. They were all willing to work things through if there was a misunderstanding. 6. A kindness and tenderheartedness. So those are things i look for.
I guess
. Oh and the canoe never really recovered. It is still a little bent in the middle.

Date someone special from Encinitas, United States. Having fun is how to live life. We only go around once. I feel I'm very lucky being from southern CA. The climate and areas are a perfect place to grow up in. I love the ocean, it is so calming to me. I'm a beach girl by heart. I'm looking for someone who is honest and playful, loves the ocean and water sports,. Sure other sports too. Also sensitive and not afraid to cry even if he is a big tuff guy. Being active is great keeps you hopping.Watching a good movie at home and a great meal is a good way to get to know someone too after a few dates. Love to go to musumes, art shows, walks on the beach, .
I'm very picky about eating fresh fish at a restraunt . I quiz the server because I was a commercial fisherwomen in Alaska in my
early days. I've had lots of adventures in my life.
I can be out in the field playing but, I clean up very nicely HA!!

Meet men and women from California, United States. Hi Mr. Right ! hope you're the one ! First I want a clean man and smelling good and who wears expensive good perfume or cologne. I don't know but that is one thing I want in a man, especially one who takes a bath a day. I am very particular about that as well as the teeth...no smelly feet! haha! I'm so sorry but I don't mean to be so ridiculous here but this is the only stuffs came into my mind that really interest me in mentioning. Better be honest, right ? Well, that's all I want to say. Will tell you more next time. Good luck ! and God bless !~

Date a woman from California, United States. I am honest, curious, fun, a spiritual seeker, looking for similar qualities in a potential partner. As a professional musician, I am interested in dating someone who appreciates classical music. Liberal politics and social values are important to me, as well as open-mindedness in religion and spirituality. If you consider yourself to be anywhere to the right of "liberal" politically, we will probably not be compatible. I appreciate art in most forms, people who possess a social conscience, a sense of humor, and a wide variety of experience and interests. I love my kids, friends, teaching music, helping my students grow, singing, reading, the natural world. I practice meditation, journal writing, and yoga. I am interested in meeting an upstanding guy who shares many of these interests.I