Date men and women from United States / California / El Cajon, 71 year old

Date a soulmate from El Cajon, United States. I am a stay at home type person,watch,telivision work in the yard, have couple of cold brew,and listen to music.However I do go out to dinner and movies, also I jog and take walks. the lady I am looking for is under 5ft. 5 inches tall, is small to medium build. She is white or asian decent,and has pleasant personality. She should also be in her sixties to mid seventies.

Meet people from El Cajon, United States. I have been divorced for 35 yrs so I know how to take care of myself and am very independent ( I do laundry , ironing, dishes, cook, and windows). I am a semi-retired professional poker player. I played professionally for 11 years after I wa injured in a fall while in the window cleaning bussiness I even wrote a book called "Life is a game of poker". Poker is not the only thing that I have done. I spent 20 years in the Navy, worked in field of drug and alcohol recovery, I had my own window cleaning bussiness . I have cooked hambugers , pumped gas, and roped some goats. I am a survivor.
I am a leader not a follower. I am usualy pushed to the front of everything I get involved in. I have gotten better in the last few years, I leave somethings to the younger guys. I no longer leap tall buildings nor am I faster than a speading bullet, but I still manage well. My friends say that there is no middle of road with me, everything is black or white with me. and you either hate me or love me. I call a spade a spade. You will always know were you are at with me. I am not a people pleaser and much of the time not politicaly correct.
I am not demanding and am looking for the same in a woman. I believe that "respect" is the most important quality in a relationship. I am looking for a gentle woman.that I can respect and that can respect me. " A sexy woman is one that thinks the man is sexy."

Date men and women from El Cajon, United States. Children make me laugh out load. Accomplishments I am most proud of: My daughter and son. Caring and loving and my grandchildren who keep me young. Part no nonsense, not particularly political correct. Hurt a child is unacceptable. So. Cal. native. From age of 10 shooter, surfer, after high school served with army airborne. Protective of any one I care for and even ones I don't know.