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Date a woman from Dana Point, United States. People say I am a tough nut to crack. That might be true, but to be honest, being stuck in a shell is not all that fun anymore so here I am. It feels like an entire new chapter of my life is about to begin, both professionally and personally. Pretty cool!
About me? I have worked very hard to have the person I see myself as match what others see. IРІР‚в„ўm lucky enough to have had the same friends since I was a young child so it must be working if theyРІР‚в„ўve kept me around this long. BTW, I am usually the favorite friend of my girlfriendsРІР‚в„ў husbands. References available upon request :) It's almost like I am one of the boys because being a single parent in my little household sometimes made it easier to relate to the hubbies than my girlfriends who got to stay home with their babies. I suppose I could give you a long list of my qualities but time is the true test of a personРІР‚в„ўs character so youРІР‚в„ўll just have to be patient.
About who I’m looking for? I really don’t have a type. It has sometimes surprised me who I connect with and who I don’t. You really never know until you open yourself up to see what happens. A good match for me would be someone CLOSE to my age. Someone who enjoys working out; we dont necesarily have to do it together. For me, PT is a must because I love my endorphins and being active. He must love food! A person who is a little impulsive is fun. There’s nothing better than jumping in a car to drive a couple hours just to have lunch or dinner in a new city with your special someone. Someone with time is good. My match would be the guy who is done being a workaholic and who balances his time well. Last, but not least, I do not buy the “nice guys finish last” garbage at all! Nice guys RULE in my book! Sorry bad boys, you’re about 20 years too late :) .
I am not looking or asking for anything too complicated. I make room for honest, kind, respectful, and genuinely good people and I keep them in my life even if it turns out that weРІР‚в„ўre only meant to be friends. I ask for nothing I am not willing to give. ItРІР‚в„ўs seems so simple, doesn't it...haha! So, here I am ready to meet new people and see where this little adventure will take me. WhoРІР‚в„ўs with me?

Meet a soulmate from Dana Point, United States. I love to laugh outloud, I love to sing outloud, I am extremely grateful today. I love children and my child is the most important thing in my world, and always will be. I take comfort in knowing God has an incredible plan for me, and I love life and all its amazing little moments!!!!!!!!!!!! I am looking for a honest,trustworthy and funny man. Someone who loves to laugh and has a life filled with family and friends. Someone who likes the outdoors, and is willing to try new things!!!!!!

Date men and women from Dana Point, United States. I consider myself, outgoing, funloving and a caring person. I have a positive outlook on life I am one of those people that sees the cup half full as opossed to half empty. I am extremely close to my family and they are very imporant to me. I am looking for someone who is laid back, honest, and who can make me laugh. I want someone who is open mined and someone who I can grow with. I am a single mom of a 9 year old boy, he has a great relationship with his father. I am fincanclly secure and love my job.

Meet someone special from Dana Point, United States. I'm intelligent, fun, passionate and extremely loyal. I like to stay active and have a wide array of interests. Looking for someone with great character and similar qualities e.g. honesty, intelligence and a sense of humor (just to name a few ;)). Interested in knowing more? Just ask and I'll fill you in with all of the details later...

Date people from Dana Point, United States. Lots of things make me smile. Lots of things make me smile. Lots of things make me smile. Lots of things make me smile. Lots of things make me smile. Lots of things make me smile. Lots of things make me smile. Lots of things make me smile. Lots of things make me smile. Lots of things make me smile.

Meet a woman from United States. A stylish woman that has an elegance about her. Bubbly, high energy girl that enjoys getting down and dirty.. Can be a good girl that behaves appropriately or will shock a crowd if given a green light.. Love live music over sweaty dance clubs, working out over dining out and movies over tv.. At the end of the day I'm just a little girl that wants to be loved.. I know you're out there and I'm holding out for you..... But hurry up!!!
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I'm a woman that likes to have fun and enjoy life. My last relationship ended over a year ago and I took a break from the whole single scene to concentrate on family and work. Honestly, I believe that taking the time to get to know someone and establishing feelings should come before sex, casual is not what I'm looking for, so if you are just spreading your wings and trying out different women like they are a sampler plate, move on.
I'm looking for a handsome, secure, confident man that is intune with his inner feelings and emotions and doesn't have intimacy issues. I have a line I draw on arrogance and sarcasm. I have found that I have some "red flags" and rather than thinking I can accept or deal with certain personality types as I did when I was younger, I now will not take relationships further and waste both our time. I like attention from my man and I like to give and receive affection. I want a man that takes control but is not controlling.
In the beginning it's probably best for us to be out doing something, doesn't matter what as long as it's in public. It's kind of like holding hands, once we get comfy with each other and ready to do the stay home, drink wine (or jager shots), watch the movie stage of the relationship we won't be seen in public for awhile. I'm just saying.....
I have a 15 1/2 (that's really important to add the half) year old daughter that is my 'mini me' so I am devoted to her for the next 2.5 years before I can really take off in a moments notice. I also try to set an example as to how she should insist on being treated since she is entering the age of dating and experimenting shall I say? Granted, I am the adult and bottom line is "do as I say not what I do" but it is better for her to see that I know how to reign myself in and take inventory. I teach her that words are cheap and actions speak the loudest, trust and communication along with respect are huge and instead of saying, "he is" or "I am" it should be "he seems" and "I feel", because when do we really know another person completely.
I don't enjoy dating, the thought of telling my "story" over and over again bores me. I prefer to focus on one special man rather than juggle 3 or 4. There is nothing more memorable than the "firsts" that come with new love, who wants to confuse those memories with 'which one was that with?' Further, I don't need all the calories that come along with dating, let's try comedy shows, concerts, wine and cheese on the beach, it doesn't have to be original or exciting, it's the company your with that makes an evening great.
Ultimately, I want to end up with my best friend and partner for the time I have left. I don't want to be alone and content with being alone. We don't have to be glued together and I encourage activities and interests outside of the relationship. But I do want to go to the gym together (I will spot you if you need me to ~ usually I do my thing while you do yours, it's just doing something healthy together and motivational for me) and know that my special someone is waiting for me at home when I'm out. I want us to be the best things that ever happened to each other and have that special feeling that we only get from one another. ;))))
I appreciate everyones time and interest and would like to thank you now (unless you sent "hate" mail) and wish everyone the best of luck in their search for love or lots of bootie whichever the case may be.
Be good to yourselves and treat the ladies you meet with respect :))))

Date a soulmate from United States. Subscription ended: 1-6-2012 - It's been a positive experience but moving on...perhaps I will meet you at a Coffee house. :)
I am a firm believer in the journey rather than the destination. ATTITUDE is everything in life. I Love to give, love to laugh and love life...let's laugh and enjoy the little moments...I'm attracted to a man who is sweet, kind, generous, active, family oriented and wants to make me happy as I will make him my world. I want to find someone that compliments my personality...I'm very friendly, loyal, direct but gentle, love to make others happy, family-oriented and my perfect match would be a laid back gentleman and in charge of his life.
I think the happiest couples are the ones who share common interests, keep it simple, kiss all the time, don’t compromise who they are in order to make the other happy and stay true to the core of who they are…there is time together and time apart…Moderation is the key.
My family and friends would describe me as passionate, compassionate, family is #1, fiercely loyal, gentle, simple-complicated, sensitive woman who values relationships and likes to laugh.
I tell it like it is, life is too short for games. Love: positive, open-minded people with a sense of humility and kindness. There is enough negativity in the world – be grateful instead.
I have the ability to bond/connect with just about anyone; anywhere on this earth. I believe that each of us holds a special quality in our heart and I love bringing out that qualify by opening my heart so others can find comfort and be themselves.
I find kindness and humility to be paramount in a person. If you have made it in the world and have achieved great success, more power to you. Hopefully, you believe in sharing your blessings.
What TURNS ME OFF: Arrogance, intolerance and the pretentious type.
I am not looking for my clone nor the extreme opposite - a fine balance would be ideal, someone that possesses the same basic values and brings the best in me.
I only have eyes for THE ONE. Once you have my respect and trust, you will have my heart and love forever but please do not rush the process.
Let's begin our journey!

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