Date men and women from United States / California / Cupertino, 39 year old

Date men and women from California, United States. Life is short, live it to the fullest, both in work and play, and romance.
I enjoy a physically active lifestyle, and am health conscious of my food.
I am curious about people, and their stories. If you talk, I will listen.
I do not believe in love at first sight, but in love which has to be made, to endure the test of time. When the superficial beauty fades away, we can stand by each other, with trust and affection.

Meet single man from California, United States. For the longest time, I didn't know what to put here because quite frankly, I didn't know what I was looking for. Never put together a laundry list if you will. Kinda figured that if you get along with someone, you hang out more. If you don't, well, you don't. It's not all that complicated.
I think I should add one exclusion though. Probably can never date someone working in HR. They're too self-righteous - perhaps even bordering fascism. A black person can make jokes about other blacks, and that's fine. A gay person can make gay jokes, and that's cool too. I probably gained about 10 lbs. in the last 4-5 years which puts me as slightly overweight. I admit that. One fat joke, and I get sent to sensitivity training. Like a speeding ticket, I'm not pissed for getting caught because I've said things far worse. Point is that, really? Is it really that big a deal?

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Good looking, smart and friendly. Educated with good family value. Like sports and have friends and enjoy travel and love to settle down in life with at least one or two kids.
Like to maintain good health and exercise is the best way to do it. Due to job in the Tch. industry could settle in life only few states like California, Texas etc. (Sf, Austin etc).