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Date a soulmate from Crestline, United States. Self-Confidence
As someone with high self-confidence, you feel quite comfortable interacting with other people. Indeed, you find the company of others very stimulating and enjoy meeting new people. Your relaxed demeanor in groups makes people around you comfortable too. Perhaps because you feel comfortable talking about yourself, others tend to enjoy being around you and perceive you as socially competent.
The confidence that helps you feel comfortable talking to people also spills into your own personal beliefs about yourself. Although you have several strengths, it’s likely that you also acknowledge and accept your weaknesses. But unlike some people, you take full responsibility for your actions—you rarely regret things you’ve done in the past and are not embarrassed easily.
Perhaps the defining feature that sets you apart from most people is the exceptionally high standards that you set for yourself. Your competence in social gatherings as well as at work should provide ample evidence for this. With these characteristics, it’s very likely that people come to you for advice and generally think of you as someone with leader-like qualities.
Self-Control
The self-control personality dimension captures the way in which a person regulates and directs him or herself. Being low in self-control can be both good and bad. Occasionally people may be compelled to follow their intuitions and give in to their temptations, and your degree of self-control makes this likely to happen more often than not. This can be good in circumstances where being relaxed and open are important. However, in situations where it is necessary to be focused and careful, you might find that you do or say things that may be inappropriate.
As someone who exerts little control over your actions, you may find that you commit social blunders that might offend other people and get yourself in trouble. For example, if you’re given responsibility to work on a project that requires close attention to detail, you may be likely to overlook important details because you have difficulty staying focused. Consequently, you might feel more comfortable delegating such tasks to other people who are more detail oriented. Being able to recognize such characteristics in yourself and having more detail-oriented people do such tasks could be an effective way to manage your own stress

Meet a man from Crestline, United States. I'm 53 and feel (act) 35....OK, 38. A decent catch who believes in honesty...so...here's my story... I play golf just about every Saturday morning in Hesperia, (nothing special - 14 handicap), I work out 3-4 times per week and run 3-6 miles when I can (I run in 2-3 5ks per year). I have three dogs (used to be eight before started passing on) and two cats... who are all rescues... and all getting on in years. I work long hours for a company I have been with for 25 years making it tough to meet people... and that's why I'm here.
I believe that the best relationship is the perfect blend of attraction and mutual compliment.....no one completes me....and I certainly do not believe that I can complete anyone else....but I do believe the right two people can make each other stronger, wiser, and happier.
I have a quick (read: smart-ass) sense of humor. My friends would confirm that I am a smart-ass but also say that I am extremely loyal (to a fault sometimes) and fun to hang with....When I'm with the right person...PDA does not bother me...I am a cuddler....and I will open the door for you....I will offer my hand when you are getting out of a booth. I like both quiet and spirited conversations... even when we don't agree...it's healthy.
I am not overly superficial but would like a physically fit woman who looks good on my arm no matter where we go....and has a full set of teeth (I like a nice smile, beautiful eyes)....a woman who doesn't mind getting a little dirty or chipping a nail while we work in the yard.....but still cleans up well when we go out....oddly, both scenarios can make me weak in the knees with the right woman. I'm looking for someone smart, educated (there is a difference), confident, semi-independent, social (life of the party type), no drama but a bit wacky....am I asking too much?
I enjoy social settings and family gatherings and would hope to find someone who is cool with that. I do smoke cigars (hello?...you still there?) 3-4 per week....unless I'm on the golf course or on vacation - then look out) but never in the house.
All the rest is good stuff....way too much to put here (did I mention I was modest?)
Last comment: ....If I hit your profile a few times it probably means I'm curious or interested......so if you're interested too...hit mine back... and I will initiate contact......just not a big fan of the "wink" thing...