Date men and women from United States / California / Coto De Caza, 51 year old

Date a man from United States. Sorry this is so long but the more you know about me the less chance we have of wasting our time. I could make it easy and say "I like long walks on the beach, reading by the fire on a rainy day and pink unicorns that fart rainbows" (sorry a little of my sense of humor) I do like those things, except flatulent unicorns, but that is not the true me. I am now off this site, if you need to contact me go through Plenty of Fish .com with the same user name.
Some random thoughts. I am fun, easy going, if I was sitting next to you somewhere, you would see me talk to older people, younger people, the valet, the bus boy etc. I view everyone as equal, and I get just as much insight from PhD’s as taxi cab drivers. I love to go to nice restaurants, but I like a good hole in the wall also. I hate that when I write an email on Match to someone that I might want to date and Match says "here are three more girls you would like" seems like a reflection on our society, not being content with what you have. I love Las Vegas but I don't gamble. I love to watch people trip on the curb and then act like it was the curbs fault. I love to slow dance with the right person and don’t care who is watching and where we do it. I love watching people walk into spider webs from a distance because it looks like they freak out for no reason. I am not a “Tommy Bahama or Hawaiian shirt" guy; But I love Hawaii. I can't figure out the best way to fold the fitted sheet. I have not come to grips with the fact that I have to wear reading glasses so you might need to read the menu. My guilty pleasure is watching Bravo TV, I call them my "gay shows" since there is always a couple of gays on them. I will always open the door for you, stand when you leave or return to the table, I don't use foul language, my dad said "it was a sign of an impoverished vocabulary", unless I stub my toe.
So… What am I looking for? OK... Take three deep breaths and on the last one exhale with a sigh... go ahead, no one is looking...did you do it?...that relaxed feeling is what I want our relationship to be like. I want to be each others stress reliever. Like when you do a jigsaw puzzle, and there is one piece left, you don’t have to force it to fit it just does. I want a partner who knows she can be free to be herself meaning that if I like the person you are, I have to accept all of you. I am not going to get mad that you left the toothpaste cap off because I would be afraid that it would change a part of your core personality that I do like. So feel free to have a pile of clothes in your bedroom, have 10 pairs of shoes in your car that don’t match, take a long time getting ready, make me drive to Mac Make-up to get you the one nail polish that you can’t live without even though you have a hundred, just so your nails match your outfit, it’s all good!
So far so good but here is the dividing line, you can’t be afraid of intimacy and by that I mean total life sharing. I know sounds crazy coming from a guy but I have been in relationships that the people were only concerned with “our” relationship, and my past, their past, kids, job, was closed off. If we are walking on the beach and there is a family making sand castles and it reminds you of your past and you get sad, I want you to tell me. If we drive by something that brings back a good memory tell me, even if it was with a crazy boyfriend form high school. I would love to find a person who wants to experience a true open and honest relationship. I am looking for a long term relationship that will be exciting, romantic, and spontaneous. I am looking for a physically fit, attractive lady. I am a guy, but I do like to go to malls and walk around, a little shopping, a break for a glass of wine and then dinner is fine for me. Saturdays and Sundays are for waking up late, making breakfast, and then some activity, even if that activity is taking a nap. Life is too rushed sometimes.

Meet a woman from United States. Here's the deal, I'm a super happy person and I live in the present. I think that's what they call a gift. I'm looking for someone who can do the same. I was married for 12 years to a great man. Things just didn't work out.
My children are 16 and 19, both boys, both athletes. They are my pride and joy and I have awesome relationships with them. My 19 year old is away at college and the 16 year old is a junior in highschool.
And so, I'm going back to school myself. I am focused and driven, but I really miss having a man in my life. I'm in no rush and am not looking to get married right now, just looking for one good man.
And...I would appreciate seeing a picture of you if you would like me to respond to your wink or email.