Date men and women from United States / California / Castro Valley, 43 year old

Date a man from United States. I am just a regular guy but i have a little bit of an edge! I am currently separated (only because the courts take so long, and dividing assets is a pain)anaway i decided to check this on line thing out! I am really down to earth and want someone that is as well! I am 43. I do not smoke cigarettes ( but I am not bothered if you do) but I do enjoy a cuban cigar sometimes. I'm looking for someone who is honest and loyal and that likes to go out to dinner and movies, and also outdoor activities. I like to live life and have fun. I also want someone who is okay with staying home and chilling sometimes or hanging out on a rainy night. I like to exercise and I love playing practical jokes. I love gong to Tahoe. I'm done talking about me. If you like some of what I've written then let get

Meet someone special from United States. What you see is what you get ! I'm tired of games. I am very down to earth and have been told I have a great sense of humor, which is good because I love to laugh. Im passionate and independent ....and would like someone who can add to my life in a positive way. My ideal match would be honorable, loving and respectful. Fnding balance is really important.
My son is 7 and is an amazing a true gift. I'm a busy, single mom, that is the most important role I have. He is my priority and so I must have someone who understands that. I have 80% of the time, with a rotating weekend schedule and 1 night a week that his not with me.
I love to cook, entertain, and be surrounded by people I enjoy. I believe I have great friends and family. My friends have always said, whoever ends up with me will be very lucky! I'm domestic, keep a good home, can dress up or down depending on the need. Pretty much all around type of women.
I believe life is WAY to short to focus on negatives. I believe honesty, communication and respect are the most important for any relationship, so just be honest and real from the beginning ! Chemistry of course needs to be there also! I'm a romantic and still believe that being in love can be amazing ! The movie, The Vow has a scene that describes it perfectly...."I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever." My thought is, nobody is perfect, but to have someone truly accept all your forms. That's real !
It would be great to find someone who shares the same type of simple and uncomplicated lifestyle. Spending time together, but realizing personal space is also important. I'd rather want someone then need them to complete my world. I suppose that is the independent part of me. I love being the other half of someone, being in a relationship is definitely my preference as long as it's healthy.
This online "dating" is a new journey for sure....

Date a soulmate from United States. Life is short, why we have to worry about everything.
I'm just easy going, love beaches and outdoor, gardening and flowers.
I understand different people have different way of thinking and ideas.
I'm not going to argue or try to meet those differences.
I'm going respect who you are, please do the same to me.
We are going to be fine.