Date people from Capistrano Beach, United States. Imagine us on the deck of a sleek sailboat.
The sun is sinking into the horizon, soon to light the clouds on fire. Wind on our cheeks guiding our way. Dolphins check us out.
Air is warm, clear and clean, straight from Hawaii.
Imagine us on the deck of a sleek sailboat. The sun is sinking into the horizon, soon to light the clouds on fire. Wind on our cheeks guiding our way. Dolphins check us out. Air is warm, clear and clean, straight from Hawaii.
We’re sharing a bottle of Cab, Reggiano cheese, and a perfect French bread dipped in herb-infused oil/balsamic.
We talk and laugh into dusk. Stars appear. Then the moon rises with equal splendor. We don’t notice the passage of time.
An ideal evening - all my favorites: the sensual, challenging ocean, a delicious repast, and a special woman of wit, humor, charm;
breathing in, touching, tasting each other.
Ah....
No, most women hate sailboats – enough of that.
Now that I think I have your attention
_Here’s the deal.
I want to have all the (safe) fun in the sun - as well, serious conversations for the future (Italy, wealth, aging with grace) - as we explore the playful, loving side of a potentially successful (loving, caring and lasting) relationship.
My guess, you want to come alive with your special man, as I with a special woman.
Frankly, a special energy and touch is really all that matters for me, and hopefully you agree. (Sure, other things matter, count a lot)
I want that soft voice, energizing touch, capped with playfulness - abandoning, for a while, all the challenges and accomplishments of our past or the worries we have today about tomorrow that could distract us from what's really important in the now - love.
Speaking about the past:
We both have strengths and weaknesses, developed through the bumps and successes of the years - and since coming to CA in 2000, I've had more than my share of both.
I'm not interested in talking about my baggage (neither of my 2 once wonderful, yet adulterous wives who didn't know better). Nor do I care to discuss a recent bankruptcy, forced upon me - much like we don't care to discuss losing the life of one close.
I'd prefer to focus on the present - to enjoy who we are and what we have for each other - thoughts about what it would take to have all that we want and need - on our terms - now
My challenge, since coming to California: women I'm attracted to, 2 I've fallen in love with (once is miracle enough) - seem to have lost their urge, seemingly their ability, to be playfully present with their mate - me. My ability to choose or bad luck, or me - who knows, who cares. Women seem to be free and have more fun with grand children and puppies, than they are with a man.
Why is that - age, apathy, disappointment, libido atrophy, or whatever?
Instead, many seem to live a "safe" life, looking for a provider - absent the freedom for fun, joyful moments. Well that's not me and, sure as hell, that's not you, yes?
I want an energetic ("alive") woman - who can come out to play with me, and then some - now.
Trust this man, instinctively, on the spot (if you can) “go with your heart” not your head, “live in the present” with me - like the adventure life is.
Should you allow - I think we can come alive, for a loving future together, perhaps forever.
That Special Woman:
She sees life and me as wonderful adventures - no matter the temptation to judge, no matter the past.
She is an adult, yet a playful, mischievous child at heart - emotionally and sexually able and ready to come alive – learning, serving, enjoying all the pleasures of life, together.
She naturally radiates confidence, warmth and grace - yet is sensitive, yes, vulnerable: to be protected, nurtured, and otherwise supported emotionally, by her man.
Friends value her authenticity, humility, courage and compassion – they want to be with her, as i do.
Meet a woman from Capistrano Beach, United States. Nice to meet you! I'm sweet, active, creative, intelligent, and affectionate. I'm looking for an active, funny guy who likes to talk, try new foods, explore local beach cities, and knows he's a real catch!
I have numerous interests and would love someone to share them with. From the more quiet and tame: like movies, restaurants, jigsaws, board games, even discussing books and the news. To the type which seize the day: Kayaking (I own one) or bike riding. I primarily eat a healthy, organic diet and enjoy cooking meals, especially if the other person is involved.
I am passionate about a lot of things, but particularly the environment ! If you're lean, green-minded, and looking for a fun date with a smart, sweet lady... then message me!
Date a soulmate from Capistrano Beach, United States. I'm so grateful for many people in my life! I need someone who will make me feel special and whom I can spoil and can spoil me:) I like to let my hair down and also TCB when needed. I am passionate about my family and those close friends who have been through my life crisis and even some good times!