Date a soulmate from California, United States. Why is it so hard to describe one's self? I'm a 63 year old, down to earth person with a great family, good friends, and a passion for life. I asked others to describe me;so here are some of their words.. I'm attractive , and look younger than my age. I have a great outlook, almost always positive. My sense of humor is interesting in that I sometimes see things from a different angle than most. Real life situations make me laugh, but never laugh at others. I'm flexible and spontaneous. My son's and their families are very important to me. My mother is still living, and my sisters and I are all very close. Now my words again- My older son is the head football coach at a So Ca university and football is a big part of my life. I drive down to as many games as possible. I am looking for someone with whom to share the rest of my life. I have been widowed twice but would rather say I have been loved and cherished twice. Hopefully I will be able to find, with God's help, a guy to enjoy life with me, respect me and eventually love me as I grow to love him. I am a Christian but not legalistic. Love to enter into conversations that cause me to grow and think. I'm easy to talk to and enjoy a good cup of coffee- stired not shaken.