Date single man from California, United States. (Last day on Match March 8, 2012)
Thank you for stopping by. This is where I'm supposed to tell you who I am and what I'm looking for in a few short paragraphs. Not enough time and not enough space, as we all know, but here are a few things that are important to me.
I've always been drawn toward the lady who has made the effort to live life to its fullest as opposed to watching life pass them by. Those who put themselves out there and take a chance whether you've won or lost. I subscribe to the theory that our losses are often what make us more well rounded people anyway.
A willingness to communicate openly and honestly is the only way to get to know one another. (Perhaps a small token of that honesty might be a current photograph somewhere within your profile.) If you are the type that likes to respond to a question with more than a one word answer then it might be fun to get to know you.
I support and volunteer for causes that are important to me like the ALS Association, any fight against cancer, St Judes Children's Hospital, Smile Train, Klaas Kids and searches for the missing, etc.
Exercise has been a staple in my life since childhood and remains so today. But, unlike my younger days, exercise does not consume my life and I am fine with missing a few days here and there. I am excited by a lady who takes pride in her appearance and her health. A woman who is not a stranger to challenging her physical limitations regularly. My hope is that you don't feel the need to look or dress like the majority in our chronological age group just because at some point in your life someone told you middle aged people are supposed to look a certain way. Believe it or not, long hair and form fitted clothing still looks good on women in our age group.
I tend to be reserved by nature but I've always found it a most enjoyable fit to be partnered with someone who is playful, animated and even a goof ball at times. Someone who keeps me on my toes guessing at what they are going to come up with next. Hopefully, there will also be a serious and mature side of you that knows the right time to make an appearance.
A moderate amount of travel, both in the U.S. and abroad, has been a life long goal and I am finally in a position to fulfill some of those goals. An ideal partner would have a similar desire to visit new places and an interest in experiencing different cultures. One of my favorite things to do when traveling is to venture away from the tourist areas and into the common areas to see firsthand how people of the region live. These side trips often rejuvenate feelings of appreciation for so many things in life.
I am attracted to a woman who knows she is beautiful but doesn't feel the need for constant validation of that beauty from everyone around her. In other words, not high maintenance.
I am open to friendship or an eventual relationship. Though I would love to hear from you, I know how hard it is for some to initiate contact. So, if you have an interest just throw a wink. I will respond if there is a possible match. Sorry but I don't even look at profiles without a photo.
Best of luck to you on Match.com.
Meet men and women from Benicia, United States. Retired kids grown. Lots of free time. Life is good but I think it could be better with the right woman. The right woman could be you, if your up to trying different activities like riding motorcycles hiking shooting guns at targets. With not much baggage and happy with yourself.
Date someone special from Benicia, United States. My account has been hacked two times in the last two days...my apologies for any inconvenience this has caused anyone.
have you even had a moment when you felt a warm glow from a piece of music, touched by a movie or story or seen something wonderful or amazing that you just ached to share with someone who could really share that moment with you? someone who with just a touch or a look lets you know they get it too? someone who knows you so well that they will cherish you even at your worst and believe in you no matter what comes? and who you couldn't imagine your life without? perhaps there are those who are here for some other reasons than these... but i have to believe there might be someone like that, like me, here for such reasons...and maybe, just maybe, there might be enough magic left in the world for us to find each other... perhaps even here...
there are two things in life that make all things possible:
first:
awareness, knowing yourself, your wants and needs, your strengths and weaknesses, and how you fit into the world around you, being comfortable in your "own skin"... knowing what you want and need and how to find your way, knowing what makes you feel good and what makes you feel bad... and having learned to make good choices...
and second
being willing, participating, recognizing magic when it comes to us and having the courage to say yes, that that while being a good observer is part of life, that life is an active thing, you may get your hands dirty or your heart broken, yet life is so much more than just getting through the challenges and making a living and raising our children, there is wonder and beauty all around us, live life like you mean it, there will never enough time to do it again... and there is nothing in the world better than being in love and being loved by your best friend....
I want to build a life with the a partner/friend/lover and have history and traditions and memories to share and cherish. the right lady will be one i can spend the rest of my life spoiling without her ever becoming spoiled...not so much with money or things, but with intimacy and love...
timing is very important...i realize that those of us who have reached this point in life have some bruises, i have my own, you likely have yours, but if we really want to have the things that so many of these posts say they want we have to have healed enough to be able to look ahead and go with your feelings where ever they may take you/us without seeing the past in our future
people ask "why is this so hard (to meet and have a great relationship)" and i suspect that at least part of the answer is that by this time most of us have formed an idea of what we want, have had a few relationships before and aren't ready to settle for something less than what will work for more than a couple of months...
there are two things in life that make all things possible:
first:
awareness, knowing yourself, your wants and needs, your strengths and weaknesses, and how you fit into the world around you, being comfortable in your "own skin"... knowing what you want and need and how to find your way, knowing what makes you feel good and what makes you feel bad... and having learned to make good choices...
and second
being willing, participating, recognizing magic when it comes to us and having the courage to say yes, that that while being a good observer is part of life, that life is an active thing, you may get your hands dirty or your heart broken, yet life is so much more than just getting through the challenges and making a living and raising our children, there is wonder and beauty all around us, live life like you mean it, there will never enough time to do it again... and there is nothing in the world better than being in love and being loved by your best friend....
Meet single man from Benicia, United States. This may be impossible, but, I'm seeking the girl that is pretty, witty and intelligent. One whose presence/essence, draws my attention by just being there. You know, the girl, the one that you feel the chemistry with! One that makes you feel complete. One who I would enjoy spending idol time with, or going places and doing things with. When I find her/or her me, this seeking will end. That would be a good day! They (Match) want more, .... being in the medical field, I like to walk the talk. Eat right and keep fit, going to the gym, bike rides and late night runs.
I like to travel!
Date a man from Benicia, United States. I tremendously enjoy the outdoors, especially the beach... love to ride my bike, enjoy working out 3 or 4 times a week... love going to the movies or staying home and cuddle on the couch... love dinning out... love my jeans and t-shirt but have no problem to dress up on occasions...
Meet someone special from California, United States. I am grateful for my health and hapiness. I love to have quality time with an emotionally healthy woman enjoying each other's company. We laugh and play and go a lot of places together.
I am passionate about truth seeking and giving and receiving lots of the good stuff. I can't recall much of the negative things about you, I spend a lot of time just being in awe of you, your inner beauty, your soft and gentile ways, and how great I feel when we are together.
Date men and women from United States. I've never been afraid to try new things in life and that attitude has given me a lifetime of incredible memories and experiences. I would love to share those memories and experiences with someone and continue to create new ones.
Meet people from Benicia, United States. Here are the results of my Personality Profile:
You are a BUILDER/negotiator
You are a wonderful friend and colleague. You are generally calm and entertaining, and always dedicated and reliable. Just about everybody likes you.
You have a traditional streak. Home, family, job and community are all central to you. You like being firmly embedded in your social groups and you feel deeply responsible for just about everyone around you. You can be fiercely protective of those you love.
You are skilled at managing people. You are sympathetic and cooperative; you are also hard working and display a good deal of common sense. And you can be very patient. So you can complete detailed, painstaking jobs more easily than most people.
You enjoy building social relationships. And you are skilled at achieving solutions to sticky problems so that all involved feel fulfilled.
You tend to be cautious but not fearful. You have a genuine sense of community. So you seek projects that enable you to contribute to a more stable world.
If you're still reading, now In My Own Words:
A Close Friend Recently Told Me: "You're a very Interesting Man; Hip, Yet Sometimes Old-Fashioned".
Mediterranean, Mild-manerred and Well-Travelled. Financially & Emotionally SECURE. One Son, in his late 20's and happily unmarried.
Close Friends Describe Me as Pleasant, Sincere, Romantic, Gentle, Serious yet Fun, Passionate, Easy to Talk to, Loyal, Witty, Calm, Considerate and Confident.
I Enjoy Music, Nature, Good & Wholesome Fun, Belgian/Swiss Dark Chocolate, Theatre/Plays/Musicals/Concerts, Sunsets, Moonlights and Harmony. I Believe in Forward Mobility and Positive Progress.
If you Have Read this Far and Have a Smile on Your Face, Chances are We Make a Good Match! Some of the Essential Attributes I Am Hoping to Find in an Ideal Match, are Maturity, Integrity and Compassion. Love, Mutual Respect & Admiration Are Essential Components! What Elements do You Consider Essential in a Ideal Match and/or a Personal/Romantic Relationship?
I Look Forward to Hearing From You - Meanwhile, Remember To Stop And Smell The Roses (Gardenias are my favorites)
Date men and women from Benicia, United States. I am looking for a stable long term relationship. Friendship first. She would be into a healthy and fit life style. I like to take trips to Honolulu and run/walk on the beach and enjoy the evening sunset. I enjoy different types of food, but especially like seafood. I am a SF Giants fan, 49'ers fan.
I travel in my job accross th upper quarter of the U.S. sometimes farther east. So on the weekends I like to train for my up coming half and full marathons in the morning and have the later part of day free to do whatever. I am not going to list what I am looking for like everybody else because we singles are ALL looking for the same thing. ..A person that will enjoy each other's company and hopefully have some common interests. I am getting close to retirement and would like to find the "Special Person" to be with in my next phase of life. So.. if you are interested please drop me a email ... no winks...lets talk. Thanks for looking.
Meet a soulmate from Benicia, United States. Irishman 63, financially and emotionally secure, wishes too meet one nice woman of sound substance for a lasting realtionship based on honesty !!! No Strange Leprechauns need apply!!!!! So if your truly interested in meeting someone truly unique, please send me a reply and lets see what hapens!!!!!!!!!!!
Date single man from Benicia, United States. I am fairly quiet guy who just stay most of the time with myself. I used to drink and smoke before but completely stop it years ago. To keep myself busy I have books and magazines to spend away my time, doing household chores for I am widowed now. I read different kinds of books which are about investments,economics, politics, and technology. For entertainment I go watch movies, ballroom dancing and eating outside. My plans in life is to keep on acquiring knowledge to learn more how things can be improve and how they evolve. And as for now I am ready to meet a special someone that I can be with as a loving and understanding partner. I hope that she can be articulate and knowlegeable of what is happening around us. She may or may not have a kid. Willing to be a long time friend/partner. It can be discuss between us. Also I want a woman who has a clear focus in her mind on how she do things. She shoulld have patience handling problems that comes. She should be honest, thoughtful and understanding to a partner. I will to respect if she has any kids and hope also for my two daughtres. We can be a big happy family supporting and taking care of each other if the kids are still with us. What I want in life is just to have a simple, quiet way of living. I am just a simple happy and lucky guy for now,to have that kind of life. It would be vastly different If I'm with a special someone. which I havent had since my wife passed away. I hope that she is caring, knows where she stands as when were together.
Meet a man from Benicia, United States. 59 year young Bay Area native is looking for that one special lady to sail off into the sunset...I beleive open communication, honesty, love and trust are necessary elements of a successful relationship. If danger is your forte' (bunji jumping, sky diving, etc.) this may not be your match, but if a concert, a camping trip, or a bottle of fine Red with my home cooked meal is more your style, drop me an e-mail. My interests include sailing, music (most exc. rap and hard rock), antique auto restoration, and wrapping my arms around the one I love. Hugs and kisses are manditory...