Date men and women from United States / California / Bakersfield, 44 year old

Date people from Bakersfield, United States. Well lets see let me tell you about myself...I'm a computer systems analyst and I work around the country but right now I work for a technology group where I service network systems for companies throughout Bakersfield and surrounding areas. I moved out here to Cali to make a life for myself. I'm 44 years young I have a 20 year old son living in Indiana. I've never been married would love to be one day. I'm pretty much very down to earth, enjoy my life and have no drama what so ever. And as far as a relationship I need a queen that when I see her I can't look past her. The woman that no one and I mean NO ONE can ever replace the love I feel for her. The woman that is beyond my dreams that I have never known. Someone that doesn't complete me but compliments me. Its so hard to get that and I'll just sit back patiently and wait for that beautiful woman come into my life. Because she is worth it, I am worth it and our relationship will prove it. I've never been in love before and I want to feel that and be that. My parents have been together for 44 years and to see how they are is beyond words. I want the joy of having that in my life instead of having sex. I always ask people why is it so easy to have sex but so hard to fall in love and be in love? I just want ONE woman for my life and my true desire. If I said too much let me know, lol Maybe you can help me find that love that I need and been looking for? Is it you? Take care beautiful lady I really hope to hear from you soon.
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Meet a man from Bakersfield, United States. I cant beleive 44 years later 20 years of marriage with one woman ,and hear i am single ,you ask yourself what happen,i was good came home evereyday never unemployed,was a romantic guy,GUES WE CANT HELP IT IF OUR SPOouses love to STRAY Its there loss,So i am here to tell you I dont believe in cheating or lieing to spouse,
I love going camping ,or the beach ,a movie out or dinner,I also love staying home for a movie I am looking for someone with similar interests,thats not hard to please me im very simple looking for a very simple woman who would love to do the things i like to, Am open to other things.I want a woman who wants to build a strong relationship,AND its okay if she has kids ,I love kids i would treat them like my own,I go to jym 4days week

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Meet men and women from Bakersfield, United States. his feels a little silly, but lets face it, we're not spring chickens any more and, unless you're into the whole bar scene, this is how it's done in the 21st century.
Truth be told, when it comes right down to it we're all searching for the same thing. Namely, a friend and partner. Someone to come home to and to wake up to, to share life with and to grow old with. Someone who accepts us for who we are, warts and all.
I'm respectful and honest, hard-working and adventurous, with a mile wide romantic streak and a decent (if not slightly sarcastic) sense of humor. I love nature, love to cook and travel, and I swear you'll have to beat me with a stick to get me to stop trying to hold your hand in public. I'm equally goofy and serious, thoughtful and curious by nature and not at all conversationally challenged, with a not so secret affinity for sappy seventies music and more than a passing familiarity with dish soap and the toilet brush. I don't mess around, don't drink to excess, don't mind being proven wrong and believe that flowers mean more when they're not saying "I'm Sorry"
I'd like to meet an intelligent, independent, strong willed, and sassy working class girl, in jeans and a ball cap, with dirt under her fingernails, craving a beer and a burger, who'll challenge me intellectually and spiritually then whoop me in a game of pool.
Bonus points if you can go more than hour without playing with your cell phone,

Date single man from Bakersfield, United States. I have a really easy going attitude, great sense of humor. I have respect, compassion and consideration for everybody. I’m very open minded and I love to try new experiences. I have a positive attitude,confidence and level headed. I’m very patient and aware of other people’s feelings. I’m very honest and I believe that it is the foundation to a relationship/friendship. Period.
Well who or what characteristics that I’m looking for? Someone special that I can share my life with that has the same outlook and a big heart that is willing to put it out there as, I’m willing to do. I would like to have someone to share new experiences , laugh and make great memories with.
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Meet someone special from Bakersfield, United States. nice single dad looking to find ine nice cute single woman for friendship leading into a more serious relationship.my kids are my first priority and she must be understanding with that.wanna know more just ask

Date people from California, United States. I'm an open, caring, sweet, trustworthy person and I'm looking to meet my match with the same qualities at the very least. I am open to just about everything and always willing and able. My ideal match is someone that shares the same drive and beliefs, someone that you can rely on, and willing to stand by her partner- through thick and thin...good or bad. I am not looking for a hook-up nor am I into playing games. If we connect, good. If not, at least at the very least, I met a friend...

Meet a man from California, United States. I am very down to earth and I love the outdoors. I love to laugh and i try to find the oppurtunity to do it as much as I can. I enjoy playing practical jokes on my friends and family, so that helps. I am a very loyal friend and i will give you the shirt off my back if you needed it.
I'm looking for someone who has a sense of humor and loves the outdoors as well. I want to meet someone who is secure in who they are and what they believe. I want to meet someone who likes to roughhouse a little bit, you know wrestle with me on the ground and tackle me when I'm not expecting it.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. My friends say I am very reliable and loyal to all. I think I am funny and serious when it calls for it. I have 4 daughters who are my world but I would let the right person join that world! I like movies bbqs and hanging with friends and family. Vegas is my favorite place go as much as possible.

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There once was a man named Brent. He’s not too twisted but maybe a little bent. When it came to love, he looked to the Man above. Lo and behold, it was an angel that He sent.
Could you be that angel? Well, let’s see what she’s about. First and foremost she’ll be Christian or at least open to the idea. She’ll have a nice balance between elegant lady (aka girly girl minus diva-hood) and tomboyness. She won’t be afraid to play in the dirt but cleans up well. She’ll appreciate my quirky sense of humor. She may even have a sense of humor of her own. In spite of her past experiences she’ll know that not all men are dogs, and some are even worth an investment. She’ll have more interests than working on her physique, wardrobe, and keeping up with Pop Culture. She may even enjoy enhancing and expanding her mind so as to be able to carry on an intelligent and meaningful conversation. Bonus points for those with a musical talent and trivia buffs. Her romantic sensibilities will be rooted in reality, and not a Disney princess story. She’ll know how to be content in whatever setting she finds herself, but willing to step it up should the opportunity arise. She’ll have a sense of adventure that will match or even challenge my own. She’ll be clean enough to be healthy, but understand the virtues of the 3 second rule. She doesn’t have to be beautiful by the world’s standards, just attractive to me. This comes more from an inner light than outward appearance. Does this list seem impossible to satisfy? I don’t think so. Basically I’m looking for a lady that is mature enough to have let go the shallow priorities of youth and find value in a deep, meaningful connection with a sincere man.
About me:
I'm always a work in progress, but refuse to be someone's "fixer-upper". I'm intelligent, trustworthy, monogamous, chivalrous, helpful, experienced, peaceful, drama-free, romantic, optimistic, and Christian. I attend and volunteer at my church every week. I would truly appreciate a lady that could support and understand why I do this. Maybe even jump right in next to me and participate. Even though I’m a Christian, I stumble often. But I seek forgiveness, get back up and try to do better next time. I do my best to not carry a “holier-than-thou” attitude as I understand that I’m no better or worse than anyone else. I tend to be a "touchy feely" kind of guy. Not a groper, but appropriate. My house is full of evidence of my hobbies and interests. Golf clubs, musical equipment, carpentry and handyman tools, computer equipment, home theater equipment, art, movies, fly fishing and camping gear, mountain bikes, and a couch. Also, I’m open to any new and different endeavors you may want to share. Outside of what is already listed, some of my favorite activities are, movies, live theater, live music (including symphony), First Fridays and Third Thursdays Downtown, Bakersfield Speedway, Condors games, art exhibits, wine tasting, etc. Just about everything from refined to redneck.
If you would like to know more, feel free to look me up on the book. If this sounds interesting to you… great, let’s talk. Otherwise, may God lead you to the one He has picked out for you.
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