Date men and women from United States / California / Arcadia, 41 year old

Date people from Arcadia, United States. Just seeing who in this world is single. getting ready to jump back into the single world. I do believe in physical attraction before inner attraction. In my opinion, physical attraction brings people together, inner attraction is what keeps them together.
About me: I'm an American Filipino born and raised in beautiful Los Angeles. I'm Independent, a gentleman, hard working, funny sometimes. I consider myself as a person that does the little things that doesn't get noticed. I'm more of a listener that a talker. Looking for: someone who is also independent and has a mind of their own. I'm not looking for someone to take care of, i'm looking for someone to be part of.

Meet men and women from Arcadia, United States. I'm looking for a woman who is spiritually committed, but not "religious "in a legalistic or judgemental way. One who into real conversation, and likes to laugh .I"m really into women who are kind and easy going ,confident but not egotistical .I know that most people are looking for these qualities . So, having said all that I think having all the same interests isn't necessary for a successful match just as long as the person is open to new things. I'm really into having fun!!! Even different personalities can get along, there is no formula to why some people fit and others don't. It's one of the great mysteries. I think this chemistry thing is very important , I can write down a list of what I'm looking for and she may meet those things on paper, but if there is no chemistry it just won't work, I know a lot of women like sarcasm as a sense of humor, well I think it's overrated? If your "date" (or whatever you call it) mostly consists of sarcastic remarks and jokes, what have you accomplished? I don't mind sarcasm as a way to break the ice, sometimes it's necessary. But to be constantly on that level,( fake laughter included), is meaningless to me. It's like that person has something to hide. It never goes any deeper and you walk away not knowing that person any better. I believe in REAL attraction . In REALLY laughing about something and REALLY talking about things. I also like women who flirt, but if that is used only to get attention and to manipulate, then it is off putting to me. In other words, I'm really attracted to women who are real. ( I'll get off my soap box!)! Well, here are some of the things I like to do : playing music (playing a fun gig) gives me a sense of accomplishment when I play something to the best of my ability, even jamming with friends,watching sports ie. auto racing, and going to the gym. I'm currently teaching music summer school class in the mornings and my private students in the afternoon. i will be working on my masters degree in jazz studies in September. I could describe myself as easy going, fun to be around (it's a bit weird talking about myself like this!) I have a sense of curiosity about people and the world around me.I also like to make people laugh! I like to play sports and stay in shape by just being active.traveling and exploring are also things that make me happy. In my spare time I help lead a small group for my church. . I've lived in Pasadena for about 3 years now, before I came from Arizona where I completed my undergraduate degree. these past 3 years I've enjoyed living in Southern California, there is a lot to do here. Having a sense of wonder and learning new things(a new instrument, a language)etc.and investing in other's lives are things that make life interesting and meaningful to me.

Date single man from Arcadia, United States. Open-mindedness and integrity are some of the more solid traits my friends have said but I always love the wild, crazy, goofy, and perhaps obscure things people I've met that spark my interest. I am very curious about life and people so, perhaps I can get into too deep but I always tend to find a way to make it better for myself and others. Unselfishness for others is very attractive as an ambition, yet so rare to find in people. On the other hand, I love to make people laugh and enjoy a person's face changing from a sad complexion to beautiful smile. So, I aim to find someone of similar thoughts and hope to make someone happy as well.

Meet a soulmate from Arcadia, United States. My closest friends describe me as being patient, dependable, and having a positive attitude.
I am looking for someone with a positive outlook on life. Someone who enjoys the outdoors and spending time with family and friends (who can also appreciate a quiet, relaxing evening at home).

Date people from Arcadia, United States. I'm looking for someone than enjoy be with me, be my partner in all my projects in my life. Someone than have a good heart, good sense of humor and special patient with my two kids. I enjoy travel, meet different people and different ethnicity. I love to try different kinds of foods and I love to cook as well. I hope to find someone than enjoy the same thing than I do.

Meet a woman from California, United States. The most important quality that I'm looking for in another person is I need a person who is honest, fun, and caring. Everyone wants to be the sun that lights up your life. But I'd rather be your moon, so I can shine on you during your darkest hour when your sun isn't around..because I'm your friend!

Date someone special from California, United States. I'm a pretty straight forward person.I love to laugh and be silly,but I can also be low key and serious.I can be picky at times,but who isn't?I'm a pretty easy going and down to earth person,and very easy to talk to.Great listener. I can be shy. Truly a genuine person of the heart,loyal and trust worthy. I am a thinker,so I think things through rather than making a rash decision or feel like I'm being rushed. I absolutely adore my two nephews, they bring constant joy in my life. My thoughts on love are if it's the right person everything finds a way to fall into place.
I am looking for someone who knows what they want. One who communicates and has an open mind, someone who is not quick to judge.A person truly genuine of the heart, honest,someone who I would consider my best friend. He can't be selfish, and knows the meaning of putting their family first. Not afraid to express emotion, compassionate,understanding and aware of my needs and respects my feelings as a person.