Date men and women from United States / California / Alameda, 65 year old

Date someone special from Alameda, United States. So,here I am STILL at Match where everyone, it still appears, has been to Europe, reads the NY Times and is honest, confident, self assured, successful and smart, and looking for that special someone who is all of the above too, and like themselves, wants to be completely honest, without the barricades of defensiveness and eventually be able to share emotions etc. etc. (or so they say. Have you ever seen a profile that says “I am selfish and mean, my only emotion is anger, and I frequently lie when it suits me." No, of course not. But remember, the statements made in member profiles are the opinions of the author and have not been checked for accuracy by any official agency.) Okay, about the NY Times. I did subscribe recently and was looking forward to big thud when the Sunday edition hit my porch. But apparently I checked the wrong box and all I got was the electronic edition. Which I didn’t want, so I still don’t read the Times (unless I’m in NY) and I still haven’t been to Europe, though I have nothing against it or any other continent. And, of course, I'll say I really am confident, self assured, successful and smart. Also, like so many in our age group I must look younger than I am because all my life I've heard "Oh, grow up!" "Act your age." "Don't be such a baby."
Now, before I brag about all my accomplishments and how smart and sensitive, and generous I am, I have to tell you my big downside. I have Parkinson's disease. It doesn't define me and some days you wouldn't even guess.
Okay, if you're still reading, what I should also say about myself, and I don’t mind admitting it, is that I was just kidding about being perfect. I'm actually averagee in many ways. I had an average high school career (lots of C's) followed by a couple years at a mediocre Big 10 school . Then two more years and a degree at/from a unremarkable state school here in California. About all I remember from all my schooling is the three styles of Greek columns , that the job of a Manager is to Plan, Organize, and Control, and that Madison is the man most responsible for our Constitution. I am not a dynamic civic leader, performing artist, professional athlete, fabulously wealthy, or drop dead good looking. While I haven’r been to Europe, I have been to Asia and Central America and probably about forty US States. Some people would agree that I'm pretty funny and creative, but not very productive, and for sure, below average in the kitchen.
Now then, who (whom?) am I looking for? Since everyone here at Match is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, opps…wait, Boy Scouts are all that. What I meant to say is; since everyone here at Match dot com is confident, self assured, successful and smart, who I am NOT looking for would make a shorter list. If, for instance, you are the subject of a Grand Jury investigation we could still maybe meet for coffee or a soda, but things wouldn’t likely go beyond that. If you are an enrollee of the Federal Witness Protection Program, we can email each other but probably neither of us wants a face to face. If you have, say, jumped bail on a Class One Felony and crossed state lines, don’t even wink. Otherwise, I am open to most anything with anybody, from a cup of coffee to a lifetime of wedded bliss. And why not? I’ll even walk on the beach in the pouring rain and not complain though to be honest, and of course I am or I wouldn't be here at Match.com, I probably won’t really like it.
I like the usual things; eating good food ( who likes bad food, and would admit it?), sleeping, sunsets, moon rises, volcanoes, travel ,romance, reading, writing and yes, even arithmetic. I also like puppies and kittens, baseball, and of course, President Obama.
Now, if you aren’t scared off by average or, my “neurological issue,” go ahead and wink or blink, or point and shout.

Meet a man from Alameda, United States. Got baggage? Bring it on! I can help you store it somewhere safe or bring it down with you and play with it.
It's difficult for me to believe that anybody on this site does not have some... I suspect that those that worry about whether you or I have any baggage are incapable of seeing or feeling their own. I do hope to meet someone real, someone that knows both joy and sorrow, someone that has not had to deny her past and pretend that she has now evolved into some near-perfect, baggage-free spirit. Sainthood is difficult to achieve, impossible to maintain.
The stupidest things I have ever done have awakened my brain. The saddest things I have experienced have awakened my heart.
I applaud when I am entertained, laugh and smile when I am happy, and frown or cry when I am sad. I like to know what is going on most of the time and do not do well playing mystery games with my friends.
I do things, then, sometimes I sit on my butt and think. Talking is nice. Singing is better. But, it is difficult for me to walk away from a warm brownie with hot fudge and vanilla ice cream.
But, let's make this all about YOU:
What is expected here? Is this where I lay out the parameters, the things that you must be or not be? Geesh! I suspect that the last thing you need from me is some kind of scrutiny, an examination of your dietary habits, perhaps? How about politics? Shall we rip those apart, too? Here's the deal... you are free to be whoever you are. Imagine that! If that scrutiny crap works in your life, well, that's just fine for you. But, it isn't for me. I prefer adventure. I prefer showing and sharing diets, politics, spirituality (whatever you wanna call it). I prefer you being comfortable being you rather than have you sitting on some knife-edge wondering whether you "meet the criteria". I prefer that for myself, as well. I am already good enough, as I am sure that you are.
I have an idea for us! Let's pretend that we are NOT cliches, say hello, and talk and do something. Well, of course, there is the obvious stuff... we ought to be pleasant for eachother to look at, pleasant to talk with, pleasant to be with (I almost never drool anymore)... and then, I hope we will each have the courage to show who we are to each other, knowing all the while that "I like you" is a bond that allows so many other things to happen between people.
I think this: "... and they lived happily ever after" has never happened, and Prince Charming wears tights.
Oh, and remember... only the village idiot goes around happy all of the time.
I would really rather try to tell you what I see than to play this game of trying to tell you what I think I am. I would hate to get bound up in my own prejudices about myself. It's so, so... so self-limiting, no matter how wonderful I may be.
I like reality. Have you seen any of it lately?

Date people from Alameda, United States. Want a happy meal? Perhaps not from the iconic fast food restaurant but a bit of fine dining which I would love to share with you.
My career has been in the foodservice industry selling food to great restaurants around the Bay Area. I enjoy the food and wine environment so much so that I made my own wine to some critical acclaim.
I enjoy travelling, day trips, weekends and much more
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I enjoy getting together with friends and sharing food and wine.
I am looking for a fun loving person to go to museums, shows, travel and, of course, dining and wine tasting.

Meet men and women from Alameda, United States. Truly passionate person with great Positive mental attitude. Rarely get upset (not a sign of weakness), but decisive when needed. Very spontaneous and like to do things on the fly, espcially during vacation trips.
Great cook and knows how take care of my partner.

Date a soulmate from Alameda, United States. Me - Successful professional, financially secure, working part time as a consultant and now ready for adventures with the right lady. I'm an easy guy to please with no baggage. I'm always open to new ideas and ready to explore both near and far. I can dress up and party on the town or get casual at home while fixing up an intimate meal. I go with the flow, avoid confrontations and always look for the good in people.
You - Attractive, active, happy (lots of smiles), vivacious, kind to others, sexy, like to explore, easy to talk and joke with, spontaneous and you are independent (you're not looking for a man to find happiness but a man to share your joy). And you are comfortable with or without makeup.

Meet single man from Alameda, United States. Me: Romantic, fun, honest, loyal, educated, like to eat out, like to travel, like to dance, like art deco, collector, choose my own hours (successful software business), and ready for a relationship.
You ditto: Romantic, fun, honest, loyal, like to eat out, like to travel, like to dance, attractive to men, know what you want, and ready for a relationship.
Photos: It seems many folks use old photos. The one with the chandelier at the top left is from August 2009. The three guys on a sofa is a college buddy reunion in October 2009 (I'm in the middle). Or you can also see me, 40 years ago in a U. of Illinois letter sweater (swimming).
I'm in the middle of the railroad station scene. I chartered three private railcars (back and forth to Reno from SF) for a three-day birthday party. I like to have fun.
Whose dog am I fooling around with? This is the South entrance to the White House. And no, I wasn't a supporter. Friendly dog.
Paris opera house -- though a major capital city, the Metro shuts down at 1:00 AM and one can't get a cab if it's raining! My blazer and I were totally soaked. Ask how I got out of this fine mess?
The Thinker -- the French Counsel here in SF has great Bastille Day events, here I'm thinking with a tipsy French fellow. This is one of the many Rodin sculptures at the Legion of Honor.
The feet aren't mine -- those size 13 shoes are on one of my strictly vintage buddies. You haven't lived until you've traveled on the open platform of a 1920's railcar.
Paris Chateau -- this is the backyard of the American Ambassador's residence -- one of three big estates remaining in downtown Paris -- almost a city block. A client photo-shopped our company name on the awnings. So, it's not our European branch -- just a good photo.
Email for a link to many more photos and likely more info than you want to know. I'm genuine, honest, single, and ready for fun and romance.