Date men and women from United States / California, 46 year old - page 2

Date people from California, United States. From what I've been told a lot of guys on here aren't 100% honest about what they truly look like - old or totally fake photos, aren't honest about their employment status or their age. Sad isn't it! That being the case I'm going to go against convention here and lay all my proverbial cards on the table for you - or at least try to answer most of the questions that I regularly receive here.
Lets start with my photos - if a photo isn't current I tell you in the caption - most are pretty current.
Ok lets talk about employment - I've been a senior paralegal with a small law firm downtown for the last 12 years. I specialize in construction defect and personal injury defense work. While my job is very intellectually stimulating on a day to day basis in all honesty I'm not fully content with what I'm doing. I want to be my own boss at some point and I'm exploring various options including possibly going to law school in order to achieve that goal.
Now in regard to my age - I'm actually 46 years old. I need to explore this site a little bit to figure out how I screwed up on my age when I signed up. For the most part I don't think I look my age and I certainly don't act my age most of the time. I'm very young soul - constantly playing around and doing my best to enjoy life to its fullest. They say "you're only as old as you feel" and I guess there's some truth in that although I think we can all agree that the sooner or later you'll start to feel your age.
What's next - ahh yes - 46 years old and never married - what's up with that? Well I've had a few long term relationships one of which led to an engagement it just didn't lead to marriage. Fortunately before we got that far we found out that we had some insurmountable differences in our views on some very important subjects like faithfulness / fidelity. Contrary to what you might think I'm not adverse to marriage or commitment phoebic. I want to meet the right person, fall in love and get married. If kids are a possibility too then that'd be awesome.
And the final subject of my little endeavor is smoking - I must admit that I'm occasionally have a smoke. Typically when I've had a few drinks. I know its nasty right! I'm trying not to do it but when I get a few drinks in me it still happens. If I'm out with you I can abstain and I'd certainly ask you if you minded before I just whipped one out. So there you go - full disclosure.
I guess if you got through all that and you still haven't clicked away then I should tell you who I'm looking to meet. I'm looking for someone who's not afraid to be who they really are - as most of us know it's not always easy to let it all hang out. Keeping with my honesty theme - I have to be physically attracted to you. If your friends describe you as obnoxious then we're not likely to be a match. I'm a fairly relaxed guy so if you're high stress, high maintenance or regularly caught up in drama then I'm probably not your guy. Other than that I'd hope that you'd be as comfortable in a little black dress as in jeans and would understand that you should act like a lady in front of my family and co-workers.
So - who's real? If its you send me an email and lets get off this silly site!

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I am very active and enjoy trying new things. I belive life is short and to have a full and happy life we should be open to new adventures. Some people their life is work and home, and when they do take a vacation, they stay home for two weeks and do nothing. Life is short let's get out and enjoy it to the fullest.

Date a man from California, United States. I have good values and am close to my family and friends. I'm active and enjoy a good workout at the gym or exploring local hiking trails. I love tennis, but I haven't been playing much lately. My friends and family would say I am genuine, honest, intelligent, confident, compassionate and funny (I hope...). I'm into computers and technology, but that's not what I do for a living. I'm big on affection and passion when in a relationship. I consider myself a very good communicator and quite open-minded on most things. I would like to meet someone with their own opinion; someone that questions life and seeks personal growth. I’m looking for someone interesting, attractive and nice with a decent sense of humor. Hope to hear from you!

Meet someone special from California, United States. Five years into living in the Bay Area and I am still finding interesting places to go. Before coming here, I lived in Southern California. I have always loved living in California and never imagined living anywhere else. I spend a lot of time in the forest areas north of here, hiking, camping, and searching out beautiful views and new experiences.
I love my friends and family, and wish more of both lived near me, but I guess I will have to continue to make more here.
Springtime has me working in the garden, planting food and flowers. When the garden is ready (minus the continual battle with weeds), it is time to head for the local parks to enjoy nature's gardens. The local wildflowers are amazing - orange, blue, red ,purple, yellow - like looking into a kaleidoscope.
Summertime is the time to go adventuring in the playground of California. Mountains to the north and east for camping and hiking. Beaches to the south for swimming and sunning. It is hard to go anywhere else. But that doesn't mean I don't. Malaysia, Thailand, and China were all beautiful and it wouldn't take much to get me to visit again. Or go to Europe, or SA, or...?
I hope to find someone who is comfortable staying at home, as well as going out. I like to hang at home, but I like a night in the City, as well. Dinner in a nice restaurant with the right person, a conversation that shares a piece of me and a piece of her = awesome. A little spontaneity where we would decide on Thursday to go somewhere for the weekend = fantastic.
Also, as far as watching sports go? I like baseball first, football a close second, tennis, soccer, and maybe a little college basketball.

Date men and women from California, United States. I am an attractive white man who enjoys the outdoors as well as being indoors. I like dining out, going to the movies, camping, fishing, riding bikes, exercising. I am very easy going, down to earth, open minded, loyal, a great listener, optimistic, fun loving man. I also enjoy holding hands, kissing, and hugging, (very affectionate and loving). I am looking for someone with the same quallity's and who is attractive and out going.

Meet single man from California, United States. I'm kind of the outdoors type but don't care to rough it. I enjoy the mountains, desert & dinner at a fine restaurant. My friends would describe me as a nice hard working down to earth guy and always willing to help. Very shy at first and love to open up when I feel more comfortable.

Date people from United States. Hello;) idk where to start im a black man that don't want no more drama r bs in my life I luv life I luv to be luv im a Leo we do luv hard but don't take us for granted im looking for a real woman not a kid some 1 that no's how to treat a man im not goin to say to much more for now so if "U" there I'll be waitting;)

Meet a soulmate from United States. I am a kind spirit. Children and Dogs make me smile. I try to live with intention. I can be opinionated but never aggressively so. I look to give to other and learn from them as well. I am always looking to learn or understand new things especially those outside the box. I am always seeking adventure and looking for the same in others!
I will send photo on request.

Date a man from United States. Now if this is you then I am the one for you. I am not shy about what I want in my woman nor will I be shy with her in public or in he bedroom. I am a very touchy ffeelie kinda guy I love to have my woman touch me all over and I love to touch her kissing and cuddling is a sure thing with me non of that ok I'm sleepy crap unless you fall asleep in my arms or me in yours. If you think you can handle this hit me up NOW

Meet someone special from United States. I am motivated, passionate, have enjoyed career success and am fortunate to have an engaging job that I really enjoy. I have found a nice work/life balance with some fun hobbies and extracurricular activities. I can say Life is Good - with the exception of sharing it with that special person.
I am looking for a sensual, caring, optimistic, loving woman that can be happy relaxing enjoying an evening in, or heading out on some spontaneous adventure. I like shared laughter, magnetic eyes, and a smile that lights up the room. It is difficult to quantify attraction and the ideal match...*physical* attraction and chemistry are important (of course), but so are common interests, a warm personality and a sense of humor. "Chemistry" defies definition but you know it when you experience it! It is difficult to fully describe yourself or understand someone through a few words and pictures - but it seems like it can work as an introduction at least. Exchanging emails can also help get to know someone, but of course that First Date is worth a million words!
A bit more about me:
I work in high tech on some really cool entertainment solutions - which is a good fit for me given my love of music, media and visual arts. My hobbies and diversions include: motorcycles, music, art, and old-school freestyle jet skiing. I am aware that "can wear jeans or a suit" is probably overused - but yes, I can wear a wetsuit, racing leathers, motorcycle touring clothes, jeans, or whatever mode of dress is appropriate for the adventure I am embarking on - and I clean up quite nicely in a suit thank you very much.
Some other random defining characteristics:
-I am neat but not fanatical about it - the mess can wait until the guests have left, but I do enjoy putting things in their proper place after the party is over.
-I am handy and love to tinker with mechanical things, and I also know my way around a kitchen and that the salad fork goes on the outside.
-I know it's bad to be working on the motorcycle when it's time to go out to dinner or spend time with friends.
-I love to find "dressy" clothes that pack onto a motorcycle for the activities at the destination. I love the variety of a motorcycle ride to the beach or a B and B in the wine country (Although Napa is nice, I really like the Sierra Foothills wine country. Less pretentious. Nice zins).
-There is usually music playing wherever I am at; house, garage, car, office. In addition to enjoying music I am consistently working at improving my own musical skills.
-I love the city but love wide open spaces even more. I am well-equipped for both.

Date men and women from United States. Hello, I just moved to San Diego earlier this year from San Francisco. My focus in life is a balance of the pragmatic and the amazing, seeking the extraordinary while having the presence to delight in the simple, of down-to-earth values while striving to be the best person I can be. I have a strong character and high standards for my behavior. You can always count on me to show up and do the right thing.
My interests are health/fitness, travel/new adventures, reading/writing, outdoors/beach, socializing/fun activities, and great, healthy food. I'm ambitious with my life and career but also easy-going, and like to laugh and joke around and share my persistent good mood. I can be a deep-thinking, very intelligent guy (Mensa) but I save that for when it fits: social intelligence is important too. So I need someone with depth and wisdom who can also relax and be up for fun, spontaneous living. Life can be serious and life can be short, so I don't worry about little things and plan on living a long, happy life. I stay in excellent shape and need that in my partner as well.
If you have an innate attention to detail, can spell most words without using spell check, and keep your side of the bathroom clean, we'll make a great team. (Those were somewhat random but that's what just came out and I'm sticking with them :) Oh and please, be a lover of men and not a hater.
Nothing too serious at first, ok? Let's just take it easy, get to know each other as people and see if it grows into something great!
P.S. Since I am asked so often "why have you never been married" it has to do with caring for my parents during long, terminal illnesses....my former, ridiculously demanding career (have you seen the movie "Up In The Air?")...and the fact that I like adventure and travel. That's why I'm "ready now." Are you?

Meet single man from United States. I would love to find my best friend. I believe my partner in life will start out as my best friend. I'm very much a loyal kinda guy, one with strong morals and values. I would love to find a woman with like convictions. I'm hoping to find meaningful connections and/or friendships, with the hope of something more in the future.

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