Date a woman from Arkansas, United States. I'm a grandmother to 6 children, two of which I am extra close to as they have lived with me most of their lives. They don't slow me down tho, they enrich me. I believe in enjoying life to the fullest while maintaining responsibility. Some find that hard to believe when I profess my christianity but that's ok with me. A man in my life should love children, be honest with himself, me, and others, in that order. He should also enjoy spoiling others and being spoiled at the same time. I love to take care of others but it's nice to be taken care of too. Most important, A man should be my friend at least as much as anything else.