Date women from United States / Arkansas / Winchester, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from Arkansas, United States. Life is making major changes for me right now. I am relocating to Colorado shortly. I am a natural blonde who went brunette about 2 years ago. I kinda like this dark side :) Brunette with blue eyes seems to work okay at the moment. My friends would describe me as fun, a good sense of humor, razor sharp wit, a bit shy at times, very low key, up for anything and living life. I can hold a conversation, love to laugh and am very loyal. I am close friends with many I grew up with after a few decades. I am originally from Wyoming, so yes, I am a country girl at heart. I love to fish, camp, hike and ride my horses. I'm a true animal lover. I run my little ranch that brings me happiness. I can assure you, if we meet I won't show up in cowboy boots. I have an affinity for heels and love getting to bring the girls out for an evening of fun. I have been told I drive my truck like I stole it.
I love to cuddle, snuggle in with one hand on one side of your neck, enjoying basic intimacy. I have been told I'm a good kisser. I am very honest about me and when you need a shoulder, I offer a gentle opinion and my listening ear. Although I have children, I love a spontaneous getaway. We all need to be recharged, renewed, reclaimed, revived. I also live minutes from the Temecula wine country if you love wine. I am a true believer in solo time when in a relationship. I'm not the girl who will pitch a fit when you are out doing your thing. Guy's weekends are a must! Just promise we will kick up our heels now and then over a cold beer.
I have children that are my life and I am a full-time Mother. I work very hard at work and at home, and my life is chaotic at times. I am up before the sun rises and don't typically get to crawl into bed for shut eye until very late. I am unsure what I am looking for in another person, or if I even want a relationship. I just want to be honest, right now I see no marriage ambitions. After 2 decades of marriage, everything is new again. I guess all I can hope for is to get to know someone who accepts me for me, fautls and all, and start with a friendship. I'm down for some drinks and conversation. Possibly a date of dinner here and there is most desired. I do expect a gentleman, my door opened for me, compliments, good conversation and understanding of my lack of certainity. I also typically won't send a wink or email first. I'm a little old fashioned that way.