Date men and women from United States / Arkansas / Wilton, 48 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. OK, SO I MADE YOU LOOK.....SORRY, IT ENDS WITH "BATH TO FORGET YOUR TROUBLES".....
In a nutshell, if you were to ask anyone who knows me: I take life seriously but like to have fun. I am funny, love to laugh and have a fairly sarcastic sense of humor. I do plan my life, but love it when something comes up that is just totally spontaneous. I am usually honest to a fault, and when I tell stories, they are sometimes too long. I have been single long enough to know who I am and what I want and to recognize red flags when in front of me. I like to see myself as independent,low maintenance, emotionally mature, and able to handle my own drama. IF I tell you about it, it will be for entertainment value, after the fact. We all have a story, I am happy to be truthful about mine. I want and respect the same from others.
I have three grown children. I have a grandaughter, who is more fun than I could have ever imagined, and another on the way. I have a full life, a career that I love, and my own friends and interests. I am looking for someone who wants to be part of someone's life, but be able to maintain their own interests, goals and hobbies. I like to learn and try new things, love to travel, and am comfortable with alone time and entertaining myself. I am looking for someone to have fun with, do some activities., lay on the couch and watch movies with, have great conversations, look forward to seeing at the end of the day. I am most interested in those who have some education, a variety of interests and a great sense of humor. I am fairly old school, prefer to be pursued a little, prefer more traditional male/female roles and still like men who look like and behave like men. (I hate it when a guy is prettier than I am....lol) I am impressed when the guy can make a decision, a plan, come up with something unexpected. Im not good at being helpless, needy or dumb, and I hate to shop, so please don't ask me to the mall....I don't drink but don't mind if you do (reasonably of course).
I would really like to meet someone that I can get to know, have a good time with, but who is not looking for someone to fix them, help them get over another relationship, or financially support them,,,,,,lol. I would hope this would be mutual! I'm not looking to get married next week, or looking for a quick relationship or commitment, but do believe in monogamous relationships if it happens to naturally develop. That being said, I am not interested in meeting or dating those who are separated but not divorced, or those who don't know what they want or have no intention of considering a relationship at all. I cannot count the men I know who have met that are "looking for a relationship" but don't want to have one......lol. Not looking for Friends with Benefits..... I have friends, and I get benefits from work...LOL.
Ideally, I think people should get to know each other over a period of time, so that thy really know each other. Friendship is an important part of developing anything more, and most of us have made the mistake of jumping in too early in the past. I see no point in pretending to be anything different than who you really are, as it will come out in the end anyway......I think if you just act naturally and be authentic about who you are, you are more likely to connect than when you present yourself as something that you aren't.

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