Date women from United States / Arkansas / Saratoga, 21 year old

Date a soulmate from Arkansas, United States. I like closeness, comfort, silliness, messiness, and realness. I don't filter my thoughts; I like to be able to just put everything right out on the table. I appreciate genuine people sooo much. Anything less than real, and I'll see right through you. I am less impressed with people trying to impress me, and more impressed with people trying to show me exactly who they are. I'm extremely affectionate and would also definitely consider myself to be a romantic. I truly care and have my loved ones' interests at heart. I am a perfect mix of a true ENFP (Idealist) and a true INFP (Healer)-- Google them:) I am an extremely silly and entertaining person and you will see that side more and more the more you get to know me. My best friend of 15 years says she would describe me as animated, introspective, and curious. I'm good at: making light out of any situation, making people laugh, pep talks, eating a ton of food, and making people feel comfortable. I'm not very consistent with anything. I hate feeling tied down NOT by choice. In fact the more "freedom" you give me, the more likely I am to want to spend time with you. My relationships with people in my life are so meaningful and important that I often feel like other people are draining, so unfortunately, you WILL have to catch my attention-- hence the "replies very selectively" notice on my profile. I am just barely an extrovert- meaning I TREASURE my alone time and people in my life need to understand that not only do I need my privacy, but they need to respect it and also understand that it has nothing to do with how I feel about them. I am not a bitch by any means but I am an only child and was kind of babiedsheltered so that side of me tends to rear it's head every now and then. My best friend jokes around and calls me a "brat" because I am a little high maintenance, but I am the warmest person you will ever meet so it all gets made up for :)
Nothing bothers me more than when someone has no intention to actually get to know me, yet tries to talk to me constantly. It sucks to see how many people don't value meaningful interactions with people. If casual, meaningless interaction and random hookups were what I wanted, I would be able to find plenty of that in the real world without this website.
Things I dislike in a person: Being around people who get bored easily and can't just relax! I hate feeling like I have to go out of my way to entertain someone. It doesn't take much at all for me to enjoy myself. I feel like all you need, maximum, is good company... I also don't think it's necessary to party ALL the time and again, just enjoy being around people who enjoy my company. I dislike rude people, those who can't be reasoned with, and people who choose ignorance over curiosity.