Date men and women from United States / Arkansas / Lonoke, 63 year old

Date a soulmate from Lonoke, United States. My personality is what it was yesterday, today and will be tomorrow. I am not tactful--- to me that is just a way to avoid the truth. Truth can be defended and remembered, lies cannot be. I am one of the few types of people that will remember verbatim what you say now, 40 years from now.

Meet men and women from Lonoke, United States. Let me start this by saying that I am not on this site to date lots of different men, so if you are looking for a quick date or a quick anyting else don't bother with me.
I am not looking for someone I can live with I am looking for someone I can't live without! In other words I am looking for the long haul not short term parking.
I love gardening, cooking, reading, dancing though I haven't gone dancing in a long time, I like to shoot pool but haven't done it in a long time, fishing and playing darts the same story. It would help if we had some of the same interest. Especially cooking and trying new things. I am very adventurous when it comes to food. I have a small home in a small town, where I also work. Last year I had someone come out and build me a small raised bed for my herbs and a few vegetables. I love experimenting and mixing spices and grow all of my own and then dry them for the winter months, you cannot believe how much better my fresh dried herbs are compared to the store bought.
I love holding hands and kissing, walking on the beach or through the woods, I love driving through older town looking at older homes, I love walking through old cemeteries and most of all I love staying at home cooking and snuggling on the couch.
My experience of on line dating has not been great so far. I have only met one man in person so far and found that he was not 6 foot and the picture on his profile was at least 5 years old or older, for me that was my first clue that he was not an honest person. I feel that if you really looking for that one person, then why would you lie about yourself, it is not like someone is not going to notice that you are 5'7' or that in the picture on your profile you weighed 30 lbs more than you do now and it looked good on you. I am not talking about how someone looks I am talking about being honest.
I have been painfully honest about everything about me. The pictures were taken in March and June 2012 and I will admit that my body is what it was when I was 40, I see myself as a little Rubenesque, but I am healthy and active.
My frends have told me that I am wasting my time because everyone on these dating sites are just like the first one I met, someone wanting a free ride by moving in right away. This is how I see it, I am a real person that wants a real man in her life and as long as he is a good, kind, honest, loyal, and honrable person and there is chemistry between us it will not matter what we look like, what matter is what we have between us.
I would like for you to notice that I said that I wanted a good man, I did not say that I need a good man, there is a big difference between need and want. I would rather someone need me because want me, than to have someone want me because they need me.
I am honest, giving, loyal, honorable, and fun loving, so if I am on this site then there could be a man like me looking for the same things I am, and if you are that one honest man please let me hear from you.