Date men from United States / Arkansas / Forrest City, 45 year old

Date a man from United States. Just your average guy trying to start his life over again. I'm currently seperated, pending divorce, and moved back to my hometown to start over. I have 4 children who live with their mothers out of state (2 in Kentucky, 2 in Tennessee). I see them on occasion, and talk to them frequently on the phone, because they're a very important part of my life. I don't wish to have more children of my own, because I don't want to be an "old geezer Dad" at their graduation, marriage, etc. Basically, I'm looking for a lady who wants someone to spend time with, go to dinner and a movie together, etc, with no permanent strings attached. I'm not looking to marry again any time soon, just to have fun with someone who's looking for the same. I want a casual but physical relationship with an outgoing, independent woman who's sure of herself and knows what she wants out of life but needs someone to share her successes with.