Date men and women from United States / Arkansas / Cherry Valley, 43 year old

Date single man from Arkansas, United States. I am a goal oriented person whose motto is " say what you mean & mean what you say!!!
However it seems that fewer & fewer people are that way. I would really like to meet a person who lives by the same motto & is honest even if it may hurt my feelings. I was raised to have manors and still to this day use them on a regular basis. I have no children but I always find myself dating women who do have, I have always been good with kids & find they add to most relationships.
I currently live about an hour out of Memphis but I am In Memphis allot of the time. So I would really like to meet someone special to spend time with & maybe eventually relocate. I am a life long non-smoker so I prefer a non-smoker or at least someone who respects that I have asthma and smoke accordingly.