Date men and women from United States / Arkansas / Brookland, 58 year old

Date single man from Arkansas, United States. First off I need to say that due to living with a parent that can not live alone I will not be looking for a wife anytime soon- I may never take that step again. But I would like to have a friend that would excite me enought to get out and see the world from a new angle. My job and other work has been too much of my life and I,m sure one of the reasons I find myself single. I would like to find someone who does not use one credit card to pay others or that spends all she has because she think someone will bale her out- again She needs to have her life together and want a friend - not just a provider. If you can,t tell I,m just a little bit bitter-Dated mu 2nd wife about 4 years and thought I married my best friend- 15 years later after we got her kids raised and took care of her mothers the last few years of her life- she came to me with a pile of credit card bills she could not make the payments on- I cashed out somethings and payed them off and then she turned around and filed for D- In short I was only her best offer the 15 years before. She was remarried within 4 weeks to an older guy- I understand that the youngest girl has had very little to do with her mom. If any woman thinks she can be a friend to a guy thats this messed up let me know- but I do not know what it will take to trust anyone again