Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Waddell, 37 year old

Date someone special from Waddell, United States. Ok, me first :)
I am a walking contradiction. Basically I am hard to define.
I am just a great big kid in a mans body. Inside I am a 20 year old kid, but I am also a grown man who takes care of his fantastic boys. I love to kick back with them and play Wii games, or take them to the park or lay on the ground and build "Lego" stuff, or bang big plastic lightsabers around with them :)
Basically just a big cool dork if there is such a thing :)
I love to watch movies ( I will drive you nuts with movie quotes), and good television (ditto on that too). I enjoy reading and art. For example poetry, I do happen to write a little, and I am a fairly good artist and I enjoy good films and love to discuss them and the directors and any subtext, but I can also turn my brain off and watch a popcorn flick :) or I could also kick your ass at Halo, or Battlefield :)
I can enjoy kicking back with a girl on the couch and watch a chick flick or something artsy, and I enjoy getting different foods, at little hole in the wall places, (I prefer spicy if you can handle it ;)
I love family gatherings, Bar-B-Q's, relaxing with friends, I am not really into the club thing, but I can relax in a bar have a drink with friends, go bowling or goofy golfing, or maybe do laser tag.
Shoot a little pool, although you'll probably beat me, its just the time that matters and the company :)
I am very open minded, I like a lot of different music, although I tend to prefer piano. I plan on learning piano before I turn 40, count on it in fact :)
I am open to just about anything except dancing and for the right girl I am even willing to give that a try after a lot of prodding and lessons and possibly a few beers :)
Perfect Match?
Well, I am interested in a happy, emotionally secure, honest woman. The rest of you I will have fun figuring out for myself ;)
Perspective:
Just an FYI. I have learned since my divorce that one must be complete alone, before you can be ready to be in a relationship with someone else. If you cannot be complete alone, your not ready to date someone else. And while I am a romantic at heart, I don't believe in "completing" yourself with someone, but that you find someone who compliments you, who you respect and respects you back, who challenges you, who has similar interests in life yet is different. Someone who you can trust, and share with, laugh with, and give your heart over to by choice. Love is important, and good, but choosing to give yourself over to someone and share your life with them is a life long choice that we make. It's not just some crazy impulse. Not that it's bad don't get me wrong, but the feeling takes a backseat to the choice we make. Ok, thats my perspective on that lol.
Hobbies/Favorite Things/Etc:
Good Mexican food, Thai food is awesome, I love Sushi, Indian Food, the works of Joss Whedon, I watch movies usually more for the director then anything else, but I am totally open minded to new things or just an action or comedy flick too.
TV shows include House/Heroes/Dollhouse/Greys/Project Runway/Kitchen Confidential/The Office/ quality stuff :)

Meet men and women from Waddell, United States. I'm genuine, down to earth, and low maintenance. I am very ambitious and have attained a great deal of success in a career that I love. I'm easy to talk to and I have a caring spirit. I did have a woman tell me once that I had a great aura:) I read The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz a couple vacations ago. I absolutely love the 4 agreements: 1) Be impeccable with your word, 2) Don't take anything personally, 3) Don't make assumptions, and 4) Always do your best. I incorporate these agreements in my life daily.
I'd like someone who's orientation is to do the right thing even when it's hard. I want to meet someone successful in his own right, share a mutual intellectual curiosity and admiration for one another, have great conversations, travel, and I look forward to sharing more:)
I hike 2 days a week and generally work out s total of 4-5 days a week. I like weekend getaways, dining with friends and family, movies, and I cannot take for granted how great it is to just relax at home sometimes. I've done some international travel and would love to do more, so a partner with a passport, the desire, and the means to travel would be a great addition to my life!
If my profile interests you, don't be shy. Send me a message:)