Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Tempe, 49 year old

Date single man from Tempe, United States. I'm an Arizona native.Did live 10 years in Los Angeles in my 20's and early 30's. I do love the beach.looking for someone to move forward with in my next chapter in life.They must be loyal.Which I am.No young children,Been there done that.Have a passion for a hobby and exercise.I get both from mountain biking.I'm always there to help my friends and family.I have a tendency to always be working.This is a trait I'm working to correct.

Meet men and women from Tempe, United States. I am looking for a dynamic friendship that has all of the simple, fun, crazy, caring, attentive, intimate, and passionate dimensions that contribute to an engaging, wholesome, exciting, and lasting relationship.
The kind of relationship where simple activities are fun. And, where sharing time with each is comfortable, fun, comforting, and easy even when you are each doing your own thing.
Here are a few things I like to do and do regularly... I like to wake up and go for a early morning pre-dawn or dawn jog of about one or two miles once a week.... I like to take whatever I am currently reading/learning to a local coffee show where there is a sense of community and read. Every now and then strick up an interesting conversation.
I enjoy my career and do invest in doing what I do well. I like to go to the gym after work 3-4 times a week and shake off the day with a good sweat, a good flexibility routine, a core routine, and most times 3-5 weight sets in rotation... A jacuzzi now and then is great too...
In the evenings I read, play/practice my guitar (learning, some potential), piano (learning for kicks), enjoy a glass of wine...
Fun to plan something for weekends...
Activities that are fun to share: Opera, Symphony, live performances of blues, soul, jazz, songwriters, in small intimate venues like coffee shops or recording studio settings... breakfast, lunch, brunch, dinner at any of the top 100 in the valley... outdoor events at the Tempe Center for the Arts... hiking, camping, short trips to local destinations to see what there is to see, preparing dinner for someone, and sharing a DVD and a glass of wine... I enjoy giving massage, and receiving. I'm an expert, well, actually, I receive massage at Massage Envy and read "Massage for Dummies," and have breen told I give a good massage.
Regarding spiritual and religious beliefs - I was raised in the Lutheran faith, I have studied Catholicism and have attended RCIA classes in order to better appreciate this belief system, I appreciate all major religious belief systems for that which they bring in a positive way to the lives of those who practice them. This being said, I am best described as spiritual but not actively religious. In general, I know that my expression of this would tend towards supporting the beliefs of my partner. I can appreciate the perspectives of many beliefs, even those that think they are atheist - though my appreciation for what this word means is fairly sophisticated. Basically, everybody believes something. The relationship I would be in would have a sophisticated understanding of the needs of the soul in all its curious and complex expressions.
I'm a skilled craftsman, and am on the slow track to rescue my short sale purchased home and turn it into a nice place. I'm doing this because I enjoy doing hands on work, and because I have the skills to do it well. What I lack is time, so progress is slow... Well, maybe glacial... But trying to move it along now.
If a good conversation through correspondence develops, perhaps followed by conversation that feels natural and flows on the phone, II will definitely want to get together for coffee or dinner or something.
Also, ultimately, I am looking for a good relationship that has all the pieces that address needs, wants, and likes of myself and my partner in a good balance. And, that results in me leaving this site permanently.
As a closing note, it is my hope as well that exceptional friendships may result from some of my interactions here as well. There are many special people in this world, I feel very fortunate and grateful to have developed simple and meaningful friendships along the way.

Date a man from Tempe, United States. Hi There, Thanks for reading a Bit about Me.Born in Upstate N.Y Moved to AZ When i was 21 been here ever since.I would like to explore AZ more as time Permits. Now what i am Searching for Basically I would like to Find to find That one Gal that i get along with Most of The Time,Have things in common with,and am Attracted to her both on the INSIDE and out.I have been single for a long time and not looking for anyone recently Divorced as i think it takes time to heal.In a Perfect world i would have Found her Years ago now i have Proof its not perfect! Anyway If you like my Profile and Pic's shoot me and E Mail and lets Chat.I will be Adding more Pics as i get Them!
Thanks , Bobby

Meet someone special from Tempe, United States. I am a father first and foremost. I am disgusted by men that define themselves by their profession or pretend to be someone they aren't.
I was married for six years & stayed with my ex for 2 1/2 years after our divorce mainly for for our 8 & 9 year children. Today, we're still friends but I have sole custody.
I've been in love three times my entire life, & I'm hoping the fourth will be forever. I've been single since 10/2006 and I don't enjoy it.
I am looking for someone to come home to, & someone that likes to laugh.
Nothing I hate more than jerk off guys that try to define themselves by what they do for a living. My friends came down from Detroit last week and paid me probably the greatest compliment about the only two things I continue to work towards. They said, "Tommy is probably the most involved & affectionate father we've ever seen and he has the same character he's always had!" (I was eavesdropping to see if they talking shit behind my back to our other buddies!)
I'm truly no saint, but I always try to be exactly who I am. I never lie, because there is nothing in my life worth lying about. I was faithful to my wife and I have never cheated on a girlfriend even back in middle school. You're a punk if you cheat and the only reason a lot of guys are scammers is because they want to prove to themselves they can still "get it.". Think about the person you love and how that would rip there heart out. Are a different set of boobs really that important? Total tools!
Being a "stand up" guy makes me a good father and it also is very important to me. Like I said earlier, I am far from perfect. But I think I get it most than most men. I grew up in Detroit and "soft" isn't a word that would describe me. You can still be a "man's man" and spend 99% of your time with your children, you can do the little things that matter to your loved ones, and if you look for it ...you can still see beauty in the world. It may be at a little league game, a piece of art, or watching an 80 year old couple talking about each other (saw that yesterday;).
Am I sounding soft, then maybe we can meet at the mall, sit on the fountain, and quietly make fun of people allafternoon. This thing is boring me and I don't like talking about myself.

Date people from Tempe, United States. I have always worked for myself and I raised two boys as a divorced parent and they both turned out fantastic! I actually wanted more kids, but never found a reliable partner for that. I miss them both now that they have their own homes. I try to hang out with them at least once a week if their work and relationship schedule permits it. I now have an empty nest and would like to get out and do the things that I enjoy. It would be more fulfilling for me to have a "partner in crime" to include in the adventures. I would match up best with someone who wants to explore Arizona with me and enjoys boating. I have a nice boat and she has been neglected, not from lack of maintenance but from lack of use. I want a woman who has interests and knows who she is as an individual and professionally. I know how to have fun and I also know how to be responsible at the same time. My partner should be able to balance these things as well. I know how to fix anything or make anything. I always help people and enjoy volunteering my time. My house has an open door policy and I enjoy friends and family. I am usually the one who starts the party or activity. I love to be outdoors and want to use my boat more often. I also like to do anything recreational or athletic. I play and watch many sports and I win or lose gracefully. Lastly, I have a good sense of humor and have no problem entertaining myself even in an otherwise dull moment. A good laugh always makes life more fun. I would like someone who feels the same way. I also want a woman who has learned from their failed relationships rather than dwell on them negatively. I have no drama in my life right now and boy is it a fantastic feeling. A woman who pursues fun instead of drama would fit my personality the best. I have found that I would prefer a woman who wants kids. I have always been good with children and feel that a good woman and family is a very rewarding part of life that motivates me to be a better man. Life has many things left for me to do and I certainly don't feel my age. I actually prefer to spend time with those who are younger than me because I like being around the laughter and energy they create.

Meet a soulmate from Tempe, United States. What you see is what you get. My pictures are all current from June. I am positive, optimistic, fit and happy! My whole life has been spent setting goals and then going out and achieving them, whether they were academic, athletic, personal or professional. I believe that I am only limited by what I think I can't do; that my failures are as important as my successes, and make no mistake I've had my share of challenges. As a result I seek out people who share these perspectives. I am a simple, down to earth, introspective man who places personal accountability, family values and time with my son above all else.
I've lived on the beach in San Diego and traveled to Europe, Mexico, the Caribbean, and the Near East. I've spent time in Turkey and as a result speak Turkish moderately well. People who know me tell me I'm well spoken, confident, and articulate; that I can carry on a conversation across many topics, and that I'm a good active listener. I've been told that I have a quick, dry sense of humor, that I don't take myself too seriously and I don't come off as somebody who thinks he knows everything let alone anything. On the contrary, I respect and value the views and opinions of others even though I might not agree with them and I regularly seek out advice from people I trust since I'm acutely aware of my limitations.
I am a former competitive triathlete and runner, and even though I retired more than 20 years ago I still take exceptionally good care of myself. I'm very contemporary in dress, and youthful in motion and spirit. I enjoy outdoor activities even in extreme temperatures: When I was younger I was a ski instructor in Colorado, and a windsurf instructor in San Francisco. My friends think I'm crazy but I love to climb Camelback in the heat. I live a simple active life and I love it. I can't tell you the last time I watched a television program, and I watch absolutely no televised sports. I have nothing against it; it's just that there aren't enough hours in each day to accomplish all that I want to do as it is.
To me there is nothing more spiritual and meditative than a vigorous run in 100 degree heat where my mind is devoid of all life's trivialities and I can feel the intensity of the sun beat down on me. If you really want to understand what makes me tick... this is it. If you understand this, you understand me.
I'm looking for a woman who shares my values and passions but not necessarily my obsessions; opposites do attract: Someone to compliment my life not complicate it: A woman secure in herself, who's intellectually curious, but at the same time doesn't think too highly of herself, and if she does you wouldn't know it: Someone who's easy to be around, and is not overpowering or needy: Someone who can genuinely appreciate the gentle intimacy and affection her man offers: One who enjoys an active lifestyle and likes to travel, experience different foods and values other people and cultures. I'm interested in that right fit, in a healthy and committed relationship.
I do not drink, go to bars or do the party scene. I don't mind if my partner drinks socially, but if you enjoy nightlife, the party scene and being the center of attention, I simply will not be a good fit.

Date single man from Arizona, United States. I am a 6'3 , Southern gentleman, my friends describe me as witty, fun, and spontaneous. Im am looking forward to meeting someone nice to share lifes experences. Who enjoys outdoor concerts, sporting events, or a quiet night watching movies on the couch.On days off you will find me biking around the east valley or hiking the mtns around Phoenix.I workout 5 days a week and would love to meet someone that enjoys some of the same things.Im very laid back, just a country boy who knows how to treat a woman!!!! My perfect match would be someone who enjoys life, likes to be treated with respect, and who enjoys being in a healthy relationship.I think we are all looking for the same thing . If you are not over your marriage, last relationship or seeing a married man on the side please don't contact me and waste your time or mine.

Meet someone special from Arizona, United States. I'am driven and know what i want.i love seeing the joy that simple thoughful act that can bring others. i want someone who appreciate that and who also get the most out his life. i really appreciate treat me like a lady.I want someone that i can trust and be a good lover.

Date a soulmate from Arizona, United States. I'd love to find a companion to share my life with. I'm stable, secure and it's time to find that Mr. Right to share my days with. I'm a nice, sweet, caring, compassionate lady with a lot to offer the right guy. I enjoy traveling, relaxing at home, watching good movies, working in the yard and doing home improvement projects. I love people and enjoy seeing them happy. I hope to find that perfect or not so perfect guy to make me happy.

Meet a woman from Arizona, United States. somebody i can get along with and a nice sense of humor. I want a man that can treat me right, i am a cali girl currently living in arizona. I have yet to fins a decent man in az but i still have hope. I work full time and love to have fun. I love to laugh and be silly.

Date men and women from United States. I am looking for some who is fun, funny, spontaneous ... some one who would like to attend family and friend events... just looking to find a man that can make me happy... I am very close with my family and sister so family is very important in my life....

Meet people from United States. i'm hoping to attract someone down to earth funny and not afraid to just let it all hang out and make me laugh.
the things that really makes me laugh is someone who could just say fuuny things without even trying.
i.m looking for someone that i could talk to and enjoy some good conversation.