Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Superior, 50 year old

Date a soulmate from Superior, United States. I miss most about my last love is an occasional hand hold during the day and being inseparable at night.
What I miss the least are insecurity and sarcasm.
My life is more than half over- I have moved on and gone to school. I like the doers and seekers and those who know how to hold on loosely.
I program computers and imagine that my ideal woman would be computer literate and interested in creativity.
I want to love again- without compromise. I want to find someone to ache for. I want something that I would never want to lose. I want a best friend.