Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Scottsdale, 53 year old

Date a soulmate from Scottsdale, United States. Self employed house cleaner for 23 years. Like what I do. Eventually relocating to Bay Area in the next few years. No hurry. Much to do here in Scottsdale. Tired of the heat and missing the ocean. Should have done this long ago, but sometimes you've got to take care of personal growth first.
"You can't prove to me there is a heaven or a hell, or re-incarnation. Those are things of faith. All I know is that I am right here, right now, in this reality and I'm going to milk it for all it's worth."
Mostly a non smoker though I occasionally enjoy an Indonesian clove cigarette.
I do not drink for the most part, though I may occasionally sip an Amaretto on the rocks, while smoking that clove cigarette.
I'm not very religious, if at all. Open to all possibilities in this reality. Enjoy munching on "food for thought."
Looking for someone in decent shape or seriously working toward it.
Only interested in people from the Bay Area.
Someone smart, self motivated, and a thinker. Someone who looks and sees many possibilities in this life. Not tied down to one belief.
A critical thinker.
I like to call it "seeing the big picture."
As much as I would like to move to the Bay Area tomorrow, I still have unfinished business here, in Scottsdale.
No hurries, no worries. Just taking my time, enjoying my life and continuing to grow as an individual. I trust my instincts and judgement and will know when the time is right to move.
This will be a last move for me. Bay Area is where I want to spend the rest of my life.

Meet someone special from Scottsdale, United States. I'll get to this part later when I can be thoughtful, and happy with my profile. Right now, I'm a professor at the local university, and not ready for a serious relationship, and curious what this site has to offer.

Date people from Scottsdale, United States. I have a pretty good life. I’ve got a stable job, decent income, great friends and family and one terrific dog - Roxy, she’s my baby. I’ve got my own place and I always try to keep it looking good. I always have a project of some kind going on. I clean, I cook, I do laundry. A friend of mine once told me that I treat myself like a family.
I’m looking for someone to enhance the things I do. Someone I can enhance the things they do and we can find some great new adventures to do together. If you're secure and confident, fun, witty, keen and sharp, kinda goofy and sorta dorky sometime too... If you give as good as you get and you laugh at stupid stuff and can laugh at yourself... If you’re intelligent - brains are sexy - caring, loving and happy... If you're someone who knows yourself and understands that life has a lot to offer... Then we would get along just fine.
I want someone I can share myself with. Someone that I can get lost in conversation with just as easily as share one of those moments of comfortable silence. I love to laugh and joke around and I have a daffy sense of humor. There are many interests that I would like to explore with the right someone. If you’re honest with yourself and you realize that we are made up of many parts and that they all fit together in some Imperfect and relatively sane sort of way, there is someone else that will gladly accept, respect, appreciate and love it all.
I hope we can get in touch and get to know one another. I think that it's important to meet up for a drink or coffee and conversation so we can see if there is a connection.

Meet a man from Scottsdale, United States. Hello , These days it seems harder to meet people if your busy or on the go . Its kind of hard to meet people if your not into the bar scene or if your friends are married or hooked up . So here I go , I would like to meet a Lady who is ready for a relationship . It seems that it is harder than it should be , most of us have been burned and we all have a story and a past . Life is short , if your ready to meet a nice guy who is ready to meet a lady who is emotionally ready .
Also be straight up with each other and no games . I am a pretty simple guy who wants to have a lot of fun and not get caught up in a lot of drama , and that is not so easy these days . .I dont mind kids at all !! I dont need a Lady to complicate me but to complete the missing piece , my life is pretty awesome now , but it sure would be fun to share my life with someone special who knows what they want , I dont want to dream about it , I want to live it !! . Also its not what were doing , its who were with that counts ... Thanks ...... Jerry .......

Date single man from Scottsdale, United States. I'm just looking for one woman for, mmm, everything. Best friends, partner in crime, hanging out, cuddling up, laying in my hammock, going out, getting away, whatever may move us. I want us to grow and encourage each other, not to change each other into what we think they should be. To connect on all levels; spiritual, emotional, physical and mental. No stressing, no drama, no head games.
Five words that sum me up: eclectic, playful, affectionate, loyal, compassionate. Make it six and toss in creative. Other than that, I'm easy going, serious when required, comfortable in my own skin, not a serial dater, honest and promise to make you laugh. I'm definitely a fan of hand holding and snuggling. If all goes well, maybe some slow dancing in the living room.
I'm adventurous, more so with someone holding my hand, yin and yang, shy and uninhibited, strong but gentle, optimistic and, mmm, no and for that one, read and occasionally watch tv, more right brained than left, sensual and tactile.
As for you? I'm not sure what you look like. I don't really care about how tall you are or aren't, color of your hair, if you're left or right handed.
Most important though, you like how things sound so far. Drop me a wink and say hi if you want to know more.
Be Well
PS . . . the glasses are optional. no contacts.

Meet men and women from Scottsdale, United States. Looking for a warm, sensitive and supportive woman who is emotionally available to a successful professional. Someone who like sto talk and share their feelings and experiences of the day. A woman who enjoys traveling and trying new things and looking for a long term relationship.

Date a soulmate from United States. Love the outdoors, sitting on the patio and relaxing. Travel is something I want to do more. Laughter and communicaton are 2 of my strengths. Pics available, just don't need to be on a Match billboard. Most women I meet from this site don't look like their pics anyway. :)
I want my soulmate to be fit, mentally and physically. You should be optimistic, honest, caring, passionate and ready for fun as well being ready to handle lifes ruts in the road. I am looking for a LTR not be part of a dating rolodex. I want one best friend/lover (that is all any man can handle). Family is important to me as it should be to you.
To me my BFF will look sexy in a strapless dress and first thing in the morning. If you can admit when you are wrong (as I am often) you will move up on the sexyometer. I'm a lover not a fighter. Life is way to short at this point to argue of things that are no significance in the big scope of life. I understand things happen to everyone and my job is to support my best friend/lover thru thick and thin, but seriously thinking the world is going to end if you had a bad hair day and your jeans are to tight. :)
Fun is not what you do but who you do it with. I have a wonderful life but it will be better when I find that special one to share it with. In the right relationship we will enhance each other. We have all had our share of boat anchors, time to fly with the birds.

Meet someone special from United States. fun active guy, who wants to be in love and share the rest of my life with someone who can give the same love back. enjoy traveling and seeing the world. Love to cuddle and kiss. enjoy movies and going out and sometime just staying and enjoying each others company.

Date people from United States. I am an energetic person who believes life is to be enjoyed to the upmost. A healthy way of life is important to me, not that I don't like a drink now and then. I want to get to know someone as friends first (I believe that is the most important thing) and if there is a connection to see where it can go. I believe it is important to have similar interest and goals in life. It might not be politically correct but I believe a man should act like a man. He should open the door and treat a woman like a woman (not in a chauvinist manner). Honesty is a must and a sense of humor is huge, life is short and laughter is good for the soul.
I am most proud of my two girls or woman now and how great they turned out. I raised them on my own after their mom passed (we were divorced at the time) when they were 5 and 4 years old. The things I learned along the way and things I had to teach them that I really had no clue. I thank God for everything.
I look for similar qualities in a woman. A woman that is honest and fun whom likes to travel even if it is to get out of town for the weekend. Likes to try new restaurants and different types of food. Go to ball games, concerts, happy hour, and a multitude of things. A positive attitude about life!!

Meet a man from United States. Life is precious and I aim to live it fully. I get a charge out of positive, compassionate, women that can laugh at themselves and the absurdity of this life. People that know when to apologize for their actions, because they feel safe to do so among friends are the type of people that I want and need to surround myself. When I search for the positive in life and especially in my close relationships, I am much more able to live in the now with little to no regret.
I’m romantic with my partner/lover especially when physical and mental intimacy is strong and I am not a jaded and wounded soul. I believe in the classic definition of romanticism that focuses on the ability to look beyond the daily mundane and see what is possible and yearn for it. However, my sensibilities have led me to shed a tear when something touches my heart. But really, I'd much rather laugh.
Three main thing are important to me socially; cook for others, enjoy food and drink with friends, and travel to new places with my love. I have diverse tastes for arts, food, friends, and adventure. Let’s put a little emphasis on that adventure facet, because I am a one woman man that is interested in a woman that puts a high value on adventure also.
Last and very important to understand about me, I have three younger children that are wonderful. However, they will only be the center of my life until I find that special woman. I have important lessons to teach them, most importantly modeling what a healthy relationship looks like. I will not be pitting my new mate against my children. I have children, not little kings and a queen.
Well, I hope to meet you one day. I am only the total package for the one that believes in her soul that I am. I am ready to ride, wide-open, and willing to let self-honesty lead my way. I’m not the most unique guy, but who else do you know that likes road racing, loves to fly fish, hike to beautiful vistas, plays bass, likes to find great cheap restaurants, and would drop everything to help a friend in need.
I am intolerant of intolerance (racism, prejudice, and narrow mindedness) Richard Pryor and Jonathan Winters are my two favorite comedians (but Tosh.O cracks me up), and I have learned to tolerate Republicans, Libertarians, and other selfish people, even though some of them are loved ones.
La dolce vita!

Date single man from United States. I'm smart, athletic, dedicated, dependable, somewhat of a smart ass (in a lovable sort of way), interesting (and not just after you've had a cocktail), articulate, and nurturing. Blonde hair (ok gray highlights), green eyes, 6'0 and athletic/stocky build. The Golden Rule is my guiding light. I have a taste for the finer things and, trust me, from humble beginnings, it's an acquired taste. I work hard and I play hard and don't accept the usual. I love to travel and make new friends wherever I go and live for life's small and large experiences. We can go out to a fabulous restaurant or we can stay home and I can cook you something even better. I'm originally from the South so being a gentleman is in my DNA. I have two amazing teenagers and being their dad is the most important thing I've ever done or will do. I love music and it's an important part of my life . . . have several amazing guitars that I play poorly but with vigor.
If you're a woman who's interested in knowing me and who I am, that's a good start. I've been single for a few years and want a significant relationship in my life. You are smart, interesting, confident, fun and sexy. You're up for whatever adventure we decide. You'll know how to dress when we go out to dinner with clients or a wild night out in Vegas. When we're together, we have an amazing time and when we're apart, the thought of you will bring a smile to my face.
And yes, I know i don't have a picture posted and yes I know that for some of you that's a deal breaker. I don't have problems getting dates . . . but the thought of my assistant tripping over this profile gives me the creeps . . . And besides, I'm not looking for all of you . . . just that one who gets me. Of course I'll share a picture with you if you ask.

Meet men and women from United States. I have had some great relationships unfortunately they have not gone anywhere serious so here I am. I hope that someday I'm presented with the opportunity to get married again but it is not mandatory. Humor and conversation are very important to me and hope they are for you as well. I am adventurous and have a lot of energy. I own a Computer Consulting Company and have cut back on my hours to spend a better quality of life. I'm originally from Boston and although my accent is mostly gone, I still have some of the attitude. I'm very particular about the women I date but don't let that scare you off...yet! I promise to get some better photos; I look much better in person. I would love to meet a woman who is Beautiful, Wealthy and Nice, but I would settle for cute, educated, fun loving and Warm. A pretty face is a bonus. More important, they must be a person who truly loves themselves and has a good balance in life. Passion. Passion. Passion. Did I mention Passion?
Chemistry is a good start and add to that caring, and fun. The ideal relationship is with someone who is independent yet capable of needing; intelligent yet without arrogance; self-confident yet can laugh at themself. A lasting relationship involves giving and taking by two people. From my experience, it doesn't work well when one does all of the taking and one all of the giving.
Okay, so what is up with all these women who post profile pics of their animals or sunsets. I get it that they are important to you but if you're not in them they don't have much value to me. Just saying!