Date men and women from United States / Arizona / San Tan Valley, 33 year old

Date a man from United States. Hello! My story...
I just moved here from northern Indiana at the end of June. I shocked everyone when I decided to move to Arizona after spending most of my life in Indiana. While I’m not necessarily a stranger to spontaneity, this is an extreme case that even I had some trouble believing. I left a very decent job & the comforts of “home” for the unknown. The past couple years I have first hand experience to the unpredictability & the shortness of life. Nov. 2010, I lost the love of my life to an illness. We were together for 5 1/2 years & I was committed to spending the rest of my life with her, but fate had other ideas. I came out here to visit some friends on vacation in March, & I loved the area. Everything just seemed to tell me that this was the perfect time to do something for myself, wipe the slate clean, & seek new life experiences.
So here I am, & I don’t really want to sit home alone every night in a new place. I took a stab at match up in Indiana earlier this year, but didn’t get anywhere. But I am giving it another shot down here. While I’m not opposed to finding “the one”, I would be content just having someone to spend time with, show me some cool places, & help expose me to what the area has to offer. If it turns into something more, that’s great.
Describing myself, I tend to be laid back, I don’t get worked up too easily. I’m comfortable labeling myself a genuine “nice guy”. I typically consider other people’s feelings before my own when it comes to a relationship. I have a good heart that I tend to wear on my sleeve, & I’m very loyal. I can be a little shy and reserved at first. But once I am comfortable with you my goofy, playful, sarcastic sides all come out, & I can take it just as much as I give it. I don’t always have a “church mouth”, but I’m not going to be dropping F-bombs in public in front of little kids.
As for what I’m looking for, when it comes to looks, I have a “type”. There’s no rhyme or reason to it, I just know it when I see it. There has to be pictures. I’m not a chippendale, so if I can put myself out here, it’s only fair to expect the same in return. I do know that the most attractive feature to me is the eyes. The rest of the body has importance, but the way to this guy’s heart is if you have that look that makes me melt. I may be picky, but I’m not looking for a perfect “10”. I am not attracted to bimbos with fake boobs or someone who has to slap on a completely different face before she can go outside. I’m not interested in women obsessed with materialistic things. If you’re concerned about having a Coach purse in every color, we’re not going to mesh. Unless I win the lottery someday, the gold diggers should keep looking elsewhere. If you’re one of the women on here that use match to get taken out to eat 7 nights a week with no interest in the person you’re with, please ignore me if I contact you. I’m not going to ask you out just to try & get laid that night, so I don’t think it’s too much to ask that you don’t use me either.
I’m currently have a female roommate. She’s a great friend I’ve known since high school, & she’s always been like a sister to me. She’s dating another friend of mine & spends a lot of nights with him. But if the idea of me having a female roommate freaks you out, better to know it now. I’m still getting settled in, and I’m going to be living here for at least a few months or more before I consider all my options.
I know most women want the man to instigate things, but it’s a little overwhelming going from a location sorting through a couple hundred profiles to now sorting through thousands. So if you happen to see me first & have an interest, please drop me an email or a wink or something. I respond to every email even if I’m not interested, because I am truly flattered by anyone that finds me interesting & has the guts to put themselves out there to someone. I appreciate you taking the time to read this!