Date men and women from United States / Arizona / San Carlos, 40 year old

Date someone special from United States. I like to move around alot I don't care if I come home with hot-tar on my boots and my boss was a jerk all day I would shower up and put some perfume on and go out for a steak and a beer.
I enjoy pretty boys who know what they want. And have a deep deep voice that tickles my ear and neck when he whispers to me.

Meet a soulmate from United States. Trying to summarize my life in a limited amount of characters is somewhat challenging. Anyway, I'll give it a try: I’m an easy-going all-round nice half Swedish-Japanese guy. I'm mostly calm/cool and relaxed but has lots of energy, spontaneous, and is a devoted father. Have recently moved back to Northern California, because of my beloved kids (boy 11 and girl 9 years old) that recently moved back and live most of their time with their mom in Burlingame, CA.
I work hard for a living with my own business and sometimes as a consultant, however I prioritize family and friends. My friends and relatives tell me that I have great values and strong sense of family. I am a true gentleman where I feel a woman should be cherished, respected, and always treated right. I love to play guitar, surfing, biking, kayaking, sailing, running, art galleries, martial arts, skiing and yoga. I also love taking walks and just hanging out.
Have hopes of finding somebody special for a serious long-term relationship or just as mutually rewarding friendship. I am outgoing, a good listener, almost always positive, trying to make the best out of every situation. So, I would like to take all my experiences from previous relationships and good parenting skill to start a new family.... Maybe you think it sounds too serious, but that's what I feel strongly. Anyhow, let's just take it easy and start as potential friends, with a spontaneous get together for a drink, cup of tea or coffee.
Looking for somebody outgoing, fun, likes traveling and with optimistic view on life. Preferably you should share some of my interests. It would be a plus, if you have ever lived outside your hometown, because you'll then probably understand me better, because I've lived, studied and worked in Southern California but also Japan and Sweden for many years.