Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Mesa, 45 year old

Date a man from Mesa, United States. Hi and thanks for taking the time to view my profile.
I'm seeking the same thing everyone else is here on Match, the person you can't stop thinking of, the one that makes you smile even when they're not around, the one that gives you warm fuzzies and the one you can't wait to see at the end of the day (or beginning)
I'm not much into writing about myself, here goes nothing...I'm young at heart, intelligent, funny, energetic, awesome personality, positive, stable, thoughtful, romantic, hardworking, goofy, sarcastic, fair and loving Dad, etc.... I have 4 amazing kids 2 boys/2 girls ages 9-18. I have shared custody with them. I have a great career, I've been in the same profession for 19 years. I'm am old school guy my Mom raised me well. I open doors, pull out chairs, I'll give you my jacket if you're cold, although here in AZ you may not need a jacket often, but just know I got your back. I'm affectionate and way cool with PDA. I'm the type of guy who'll always keep you safe and secure, the one who'll hold you and let you know everything will be alright just in case life throws you a curve ball.
I like music a lot, especially live shows. I'm all over the place when it comes to music, I like the 80's, metal, R&B, little hip-hop, jazz, but not much into country. I enjoy going to sports bars to catch a game, although I prefer being there in person as opposed to watching from a bar. I'm not a club guy, I don't really enjoy that scene anymore. I enjoy physical fitness and trying to keep fit.
I exercise 4-5 days per week whether it's biking, hiking, lifting or cross fit. I'm a big sports fan, football is my thing. I can't wait for the seaon to start. I really enjoy being outdoors whether it's camping, hiking, biking or just having a quiet evening on the patio with a nice glass of wine or a frosty cold beer. I also have a new found appreciation of wine, so I've been getting out a bit more with friends to try some new wines. I'm not gonna' lie, it's been pretty damn enjoyable doing "wine research"
I don't want to put it all out there, so if there's more you'd like to know just ask, I'm super easy to talk to. You'll be glad you did and you'll wonder why you waited so long...just sayin'
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Meet a soulmate from Mesa, United States. Thank you for reviewing and reading my profile and I so much appreciated you asking, that is a valid question and I can have a really good answer for you but lets' talk about it later....is that okay...

Date men and women from Mesa, United States. Hard working, intelligent, outgoing and will try just about anything once. Exclusions are sky diving, searching for sunken treasure in a sub, traveling to the moon on a Richard Branson flight and driving on the wrong side of the road in the UK. Aside from that I'm game.

Meet people from Mesa, United States. Online dating ... 20 - 25 years ago this isn't how we dated. Times have changed and I'm willing to change with some of those things - but I'm still stuck in my "Old Fashioned" ways ... chivalry might be mortaly wounded - but its not dead yet. I believe in saying things like Thank you, please, parden me, your welcome, after you please, etc etc ... opening a door for someone wont waste the whole day - I've done it ... it is not that difficult.
I am online to find someone - maybe a great friend that will turn into the love of my life and I'll NEVER have to fill one of these things out ever again? Is that what you want too??
I'm not here to put another "notch" on the bedpost or date everyone I can ... I'm not here to financially support someone - it should be a partnership and we should build a life together.
It is very important to me to treat others better than I would have them treat me and make sure those who are important to me - know it without any doubts. I am looking for a solid committed relationship (yes, a man NOT afraid of committment) and would consider marriage in the next year or so. I know thats the direction I want to go in - I've worked so much over the last 11 years and haven't really put forth the effort to find my last first kiss and lifelong love - its past time ... but I'm not going to accept the first person that will "settle" for me or put up with me.
I am passionate and affectionate - right place and time ... I don't think that should end after the first couple of months, years, or decades. When we are in our 90's I want to hold your hand and kiss you as I did when I grasped the concept that I was deeply in love with you.
I love old music, musicals, plays and small theaters. I'm ok with going out - but I'm more the type to stay home and entertain friends and family ... show off in the kitchen (love the cooking channel). I don't have the "boys" to hang out with ... my evenings and nights would be home - unless we are out together.
Soooooooooooo much more - but lets leave that to our detail conversations as we get to know each other.
Are you ready for a change ... want to see if we can change things and grow together?

Date someone special from Mesa, United States. OK, I'm not exactly sure how to describe myself, I mean, I know how I see myself, but I believe its different than how others see me or anyone for that matter. With that being said ... I'm pretty much the same as most people, got some family, friends, dogs. I like doing things, and going places, I think family and friends are important.
I think you really have to spend time with someone to get a feel for who they really are and what they have that is special. You know, the beauty in the eye of the beholder thing.
There are a few things I do know for sure about myself; I have a right angle mind (scientific, mathematical, mechanical, realist, kind of thing) with a small amount of inner hippie. I do have an artistic side as well but not as keenly developed. I am fairly well educated, I am fairly well travelled, I am somewhat positive, prepare for the worst and hope for the best. I have good sense of humor, its a bit dry and sometimes sarcastic wit, but all in a good way. Its not for everyone, but if you get it I'm effin hillarious. I strive to be a better person than my previous self although the going is slow.
By starting the online dating process I have realized I am NOT photogenic. These are all the photos I have of me digitally. I have attempted snapping some new ones for a better picture and, well, mostly to no avail. Soon I will have a couple of current pics that are my best. Fingers crossed.
As for what I am looking for in a match, someone who gets me (not many people do). Someone who is smart, funny, tolerant, a positive person, someone that is equally comfortable outdoors or out on the town. It's important to me that we share common interests and do things together.
Probably alot but you gotta ask!

Meet single man from Mesa, United States. Im a little disillusioned by love lately... So, Im just going to say it like it is...
Im rich, well endowed, travel at my leisure and looking to find a nice uncomplicated friendship.
Ideally, a true connection would be the goal.

Date a man from United States. I wear my emotions on my sleeve, I express them mostly through music. I have a wild side that I keep bottled up most of the time, he gets out every now and again, but I have managed to keep him from burning down any cities. I try and keep my life simple and controlled, with 4 daughters that is tough. I have seen and done a lot in this life and the next chapter of my epic tale is in the works. I believe you can't buy class or learn common sense. I will never be perfect,my life is not a Norman Rockwell painting, in fact at times its more like Picasso.
Passions-Hawaiian rain,my music,playing and writing whenever I can, there is a lot that is unfinished in the last few years,but like fine wine they get better with age.I love live music,I spent 20 years in the music business.I love the cold mornings as the sun peaks over the mountain at the lake and that first ski on water like glass, been getting me since I was a kid. Been hiking with my dog a lot lately, love exploring Arizona. Here is the rundown-I like good food, red wine, sweating out my stress, dive bars, Duke's Hula Pie, bad movies,good tequila,hard rock, cool jazz, really all music. Keep in mind as a musician I like a lot of music and am always listening to new music. Ok now the rest.I live for bacon, peanut butter, my kids, new restaurants, making love on lazy Sundays, popcorn in bed during a movie on said lazy Sunday, Macadamia Nuts, did I mention anything w peanut butter.
You - Are dynamic with a bit of whimsy,confident enough to not be afraid to be silly in public, strong enough to fight for what you believe in and understanding enough to know we wont always agree and that's OK.I don't want to work hard to fit into your life. I am a bit of a night owl, but that is when I write, think, and dream. I am a physical being and have no problem showing affection in public. I relish your independence but I think relying on each other for emotional support, that needed push every now and again, or just sharing ideas and thoughts about life,love, family, or anything else. I value your intelligence, I don't have a big problem being wrong, and am pretty good at admitting it...communication is key and will vocalize my feelings and thoughts, you better be able to also.
First Meet - Coffee or a drink-an hour or two at most....unless there is that undeniable feeling that carries the time away...
Disclaimers:
Although most women on here are looking for honesty, they seem to lack it themselves. So, as a rule, first meet a drink, coffee, tea. We shall call this the size up since that's what it is. If we aren't up for a second date, that's OK. We met, didn't feel it and moved on.
To much pressure here on us guys, so I put it to you to make ME laugh, prove your financially sound, that you have some value. Tired of being questioned about my life and you gals never speak a word. If your gonna commit to a meet how about you try opening up a bit.
I have been told I love you on the 2nd date, had a gal w 11 year old pictures, and a myriad of expensive dinners that never went anywhere. So if you want that 2nd date with a respectful, honest, loyal, good man....well you get it.
On the Shades of Grey thing...You women do realize you are reading porn in a neat little book because its popular. All those years of complaining about us watching or looking at explicit material, gone in one fell swoop. I actually had someone tell me that its not the same. Just because you are stimulated differently does not mean that it is any different.
Lastly, I have not had any work done...I am all natural. This is my real chest, my real teeth, and my real hair....it's there, just below the surface, well on the sides anyway...so try not to judge to harshly, This body has been through a lot so please respect it.

Meet a soulmate from United States. I guess I'm just your average guy. I'm a successful professional with a young son who is the center of my world. I love the outdoors and having adventures. Life is too short to just sit around waiting for it to happen. Hoping to find someone who is positive, spontaneous , adventurous, honest and fun

Date men and women from United States. Hi,
I am a native to Arizona and I operate my own business. I don't get to spend much time out socializing, so I let one of my friends talk me into this. She said it would be fun and maybe some good experiences would come out of it. I'm independent, ambitious and looking for someone to spend time with, potentially build a relationship. I enjoy spending time outdoors and make a habit of attending all types of events ( social, sporting, concerts ) as often as possible.
I'm not really in a habit of talking about myself but I would tell you that my friends would say that I am honest, hard working, trustworthy and dependable. I'm here just like everyone else looking for someone who is not only physically attractive to me, but also mentally and emotionally attractive. ( Inner beauty is the most important ) whats inside a person is what counts. If you enjoy anything from a night out in Vegas, a camping trip in the woods, a day on the lake, or a quiet night at home watching a movie I'm good with the same.
Send me an email, let's see what we have in common.

Meet people from United States. I'm an easy-going guy who is looking for a nice, fun girl who I can enjoy going places and simply hanging out with friends. Nearly all of my friends are married, so being a third-wheel is never ideal.
I'm originally from Ohio. I'm close to my family, but we all live in different parts of the country (San Francisco, Jacksonville, Dayton, North Carolina, and me in Phoenix). I travel for work a few days each month to San Francisco, which is interesting, but I'd like to travel more.
My ideal match would be a girl who laughs at my jokes, is willing to take off for a weekend trip at short notice, and doesn't revel in drama. Looks are always a plus, but then again, to each his own.

Date someone special from United States. First and foremost, I have to apologize for the "Men" on Match.com who send ladies naked pictures of themselves or ask them for naked pictures of themselves. Call me old-fashioned, but where did all the romance go?
I'd like to meet a woman who knows how to be with a "nice guy". I love to open car doors for my lady, send surprise gifts, text "I am thinking about you" during a busy day.
I want the world to stop for me when I look into your eyes. I am not looking for a one night stand but someone who I can "court" like in the old days.
I have had full custody of my son his whole life and was "Mr. Mom for many years. I did not date until he was 10 because I didn't want his childhood memories to include dad's multiple girlfriends. He is now 18 and a total gentleman, which makes me extremely proud.
I was married for 7 years, so in short, I haven't dated in almost 2 decades and I can't believed how much it changed. Okay, call me a dating nerd, but I don't want to be a "player"
I am not looking for perfection, because I am not perfect. My work is important to me as I am thee founder and CEO of a national franchised healthcare information company. However, I want to find a woman who makes me look more forward to getting off of work to see her then stay for another meeting.
I was a therapist for several years and have learned how important true communication is. I love to listen, converse and spend hours in pillow talk. You will never find me calling you drunk at 2 in the morning or fighting with you because I can't go to the corner sports bar with my buddies.
I'd like to meet you for dinner so we can learn more about each other. If you are an old fashioned girl yourself, send me a wink or an email and let's talk.
If not, good luck in your search, I hope you find love.

Meet single man from United States. Well, I am not a creative writer, so what you see is what you get. Life is about living, loving and laughing, and having fun. My job producing events allows others to have fun and laugh. This is the best medicine in life. I love to sit still and talk and share life with those closest to me, but my passion for running and being outdoors is my favorite way to start the day and a great bottle of wine and a beautiful sunset is a terrific way to end the day. I love to travel and going to New England or the West coast are some of my favorite places to go. On occasion, a European trip is lots of fun too. Looking for someone with the same desires in life, especially someone motivated to live life like it is a new day!