Date women from United States / Arizona / Marana, 37 year old

Date a woman from United States. First of all, if you are taking the time to read this, i thank you,.
About me, my name is Elizabeth, i considere myself to be a mature person, with a good head on my shoulders, in other words, i do know what i want in life and know that am not out there to play games.
I'm new to online dating, simply because i havent had much time to really meet anyone or date, because of work and my daily obligations, but I feel ready to hopefully meet my match soon...
I'm looking for someone that, i can feel comfortable around, that can make me smile, someone who still believes in romance and love at first sight.. I know it sounds like too much, but i deeply believe that chemistry in a couple is very important, knowing how to be yourself, having (not the right thing to say), but whatever comes to mind and having your partner understand just what you are talking about... (even if its the dumbest thing ever). someone who likes to send messages, leave love notes behind, a surprised dinner, flowers, chocolates...I guess i still think its important to show affection to get to the higher level, to fall inlove...
I considere myself a romantic person, (not clingy though).
I would like to date someone who wants a real relationship, am not interested in one night deals, also considere myself to be a respectful person but that likes to give respect in return.
I have 3 teeangers in my life, but my kids are great, they are very polite, respectful and most of all very understanding, they are a huge part in my life, but i also feel that i need to find someone who can comfort me, listen to me, take care of me, love me, and allow me to be able to do the same for you... if you are that someone? please let me know ..... Thanks for your time...