Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Lakeside, 48 year old

Date people from Arizona, United States. I'm a dedicated, trustworthy guy who sets his goals high and will fight to obtain them. I have 'old fashioned' values, a great sense of humor and a great personality.
I like to go out and try different things but also like hanging around the house with family/friends watching sports/bbqing/playing games.
Looking for a friend first and then if chemistry is right, take it to the next level. Honesty/trust/personality/independent and having an open mind take a chance on something you've never tried before is a definite must.
She must be loyal, family-oriented, non-clingy, non-jealous, sense of humor, goal setting, able to carry herself in any situation. Someone who doesn't judge a book by its cover, and definitely wants to be treated like a lady (if you're looking for a 'bad boy' keep looking).
I'll explain more once we talk. I have no baggage and I'm not into playing games. I love music and going to see live concerts at local clubs and big arenas.
I have a Bachelor's degree in Media Communications (Sacramento State) & a Masters degree in Rehabilitation Counseling w/an emphisis on male athletes in the area of drugs/alcohol abuse, domestic violence & post career transition.
I have a great FT job working in Little Italy. I work PT as a sports writer for the Military Press covering the Chargers, MMA and other sporting events. Also, I play the drums and I'm trying to start a classic rock/blues band -- do you know any musicians available?
I'm not much for emailing/texting/twittering, I would much rather talk in person over the phone/ coffee shop/ happy hour/ lunch or dinner.
Lastly, I will gladly provide a photo to your email -- job prevents me from putting it on a web sight -- but hey, that's what comes with a security/government job. Also, since honesty is high on my priority list I would like to let you know that I'm in a wheelchair as a result of an automobile accident when I was 17. The only thing I can't do is walk and dance (I have two left wheels!) -- I'm independant; I drive myself and pretty self-sufficient despite the circumstances.
The question is -- are you open-minded enough to try a relationship with someone in a chair? Trust me, there are obvisiosly certain things I can't do, but there are other things I can do much better than guys able to walk.
Good luck in your search!