Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Lakeside, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from Lakeside, United States. I am seeking a man who wants a friendship first..The one thing that I am still searching for is that special someone to share all the great and sometimes not so great stuff that life can sometimes throw you. My ideal partner is someone who challenges me to be a better person, expands my horizons, MAKES ME LAUGH, and introduces me to other views and adventures. He is kind, loving, and knows how to cherish a woman. He is romantic and passionate and knows how to take control when I feel like being a total woman.. I am independent but I like a man to be the man. I love to try new things and love someone to pull me out of my comfort zone. I love dinners out as much as a quiet night in... Being able to cook would be a big plus. I’m much happier doing the dishes. I tend to be a bit shy until I get to know you. One of those things I'm trying to work on... I love to travel, even if it's a day trip.. I have not gone to nearly enough places. So much to do and so little time….
I know that my match is out there somewhere.... if you're looking for the same... I'd love to hear from you.
Please be honest about who you are and what you want..

Meet a woman from Lakeside, United States. Right now I'm really just looking for someone who enjoys the same things I do and is looking for someone fun to do them with. I love to laugh,so a good sense of humor is a must!
I'm not looking for anything serious right now. I just ended a 20 year marriage last year,so this feels like time to be casual and see what it's like to meet interesting people and share new experiences.
I have a 20 year old daughter and a one year old grandson who I adore! My daughter is my only child, so getting to experience a little boy is fantastic!
I'm looking for someone who doesn't take themself too seriously and who is kind and intelligent and loves to laugh. I love to learn and experience new things and would enjoy meeting someone who is like minded.