Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Gilbert, 40 year old

Date men and women from Arizona, United States. And almost all of of on this site are falling victim to that.
If you're looking for a guy who's smart; who will always have you laughing (and not at me); who knows how to treat you; has tons of interests from sports to cooking to blogging; and loves to travel...then read on.
My approach to life is to enjoy it, live it to the fullest, but don’t take it too seriously. I like to be adventurous, playful and spontaneous. I try to be constantly learning and growing. Life with me is never boring. I am not guaranteed another year or day, so I try to live with that in mind.
Staying physically and mentally fit is important to me. I love to compete in triathlons and marathons. I completed my first Ironman triathlon in 2010...and I’m looking forward to completing another one one in 2012. On the flip side, I love reading and writing philosophy. It helps keep my mind fit and sharp.
I like women to be feminine. You don’t have to try to be one of the guys...I like that you’re a girl! You should be soft and smell pretty - we love that. While I may not want to get a manicure or pedicure with you, I love that you do it for yourself.
Romance...such a misunderstood word. Its not about flowers or chocolate or diamonds. When I think of romance it is - making you know you are heard and understood; making sure you always feel beautiful, unique and loved; creating moments that are special between the two of us. Romance is kissing you the right way...and doing it often.

Meet someone special from Arizona, United States. I am looking for a relationship with someone who appreciates a honest, stable, loyal man that loves to take care of(maybe spoil sometimes) his partner.
I like to challenge myself mentally and physically. I am a deep thinker, but light-hearted and love to make people laugh. I am laid-back and sometime introspective which is sometimes mistaken as seriousness until you get to know me. I am always looking for the opportunity for a "one-liner".
I am a good communicator and have no problem expressing myself. I am big on respect and trust in a relationship.
Do you: like to let loose and be goofy sometimes? like to laugh? like to be spontaneous? That is a good start!
I love music, in fact, I have music on from the moment I wake up and generally go to asleep to it. It's a pretty diverse playlist, from Adele, Duffy, Gavin Degraw, John Mayor, Ray LaMontagne, Black Keys, Coldplay, James Morrison, Jeffery Gaines, John Legend, Maroon 5, the list goes on and on!
I love to travel, Favorite spots are: Vegas, Hawaii, Coronado, NYC...but tons of places on my list. I consider myself a little bit of a foodie. I love finding amazing restaurants around the country. I also love to cook, I find it relaxing and therapeutic. I look at it like an art form. Artwork on a plate, I love making it look good and taste great! :-)

Date a man from Arizona, United States. I am an Arizona native (practically as I moved here when I was 5 years old) and grew up in the East Valley. However, I have a great job that I enjoy and one of the benefits is that is requires (or allows) me to travel around the country and world. I have been able to see and experience many other places and cultures. I look forward to continuing these worldly adventures and would like to also share those with someone special.
I have a very laid back personality. I can be serious when necessary (I do have a professional job!) but I am never afraid to make somebody laugh or throw down the sarcastic remark.
My family is extremely important to me and I enjoy spending time with them, especially my kids. From watching their sporting events to helping my daughter select the set list for her bands next gig I like to be involved in their activities. I also like to spend time with friends…could be a quick drink at happy hour or catching a football/baseball game on occasion. All that said there is definitely room to be made in my life for someone that I care about.
I am looking for someone to bring new experiences to my life and/or to have them join in with mine. I hope to find an honest, caring, fun, and independent woman that is not afraid to laugh out loud. We can have fun with a night out or simply relaxing at home...watching a game, movie, or just hanging out with conversation.

Meet people from Arizona, United States. I am someone who remembers where I came from. I have strong unwaivering morals. I am a single dad of a 12 year old son and a 20 year old daughter and VERY proud of it. I love children, probably because I occasionally act like one. I'm just as comfortable laying on the floor playing with kids as I am in a recliner. I am looking for that special someone who I can make laugh and make happy and get the same in return. I am in no way controlling nor will I ever be. I respect independence. I would like to be in a permanent relationship. Long term to me means you've already ruled out that the relationship won't last forever. If the relationship is maintained, it can and will last forever. I want to share my life with you, that very special someone. IF YOU ARE NOT IN ARIZONA, PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME. I AM FAMILLIAR WITH THE WOMEN FROM GHANA AND THEIR SCAMS. Thanks!!

Date single man from Arizona, United States. I am a single dad of a 9 year old girl who I absolutely adore. She is the single most important person in my life and spending time with her is the most important thing I do. Family is really important to me and I am looking for someone who feels the same way.
I’m a self-motivated confidant man and my closest friends would describe me as protective, honest, giving, supportive, and hilarious. I do have a soft side to me once I get to know you. I want to meet someone who is open to developing a strong friendship that can hopefully grow into something more. I would be the person you could turn to no matter what, and I would ask the same in return.
I own a small real estate investment firm and I absolutely love what I do. I get up in the morning excited about my current projects that surround me.
I believe that I have been so blessed in my life it's so important for me to give back where ever I can. I currently volunteer at Phoenix Children’s Hospital in the Cystic Fibrosis Ward. These kids inspire me every day, and have taught me the true meaning of courage. I lost 2 relatives to that disease; any sick child runs circles around most able bodied people I know.
I work best with people of similar qualities. If you love sports, that would be a plus. So if you’re interested in learning more about me shoot me an email so we can get to know each other.

Meet a soulmate from Arizona, United States. I am Veteran of 15 years and have seen alot. I have traveled around half the world. I would like a women to spend time with and make me smile as I would her. I have no expectations of Love or relationships. I believe in Destiny and one day I hope to meet my soulmate and be happy again.I am very passionate and easy going! I have a big herat sometimes to big! I am grateful to be alive and surviving this crazy world. I am a firm believer of LOVE, PEACE, AND HAPPINESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Date men and women from United States. I'm a nice good guy looking for a nice good gal. I like funny women who like to laugh a lot and who smell nice. Some things i enjoy are golf, raquetball, and camping. I like adventure and I'm am eager to learn and experience as many new things as possible.

Meet someone special from United States. Life is definitely good but looking for that special woman to share the adventure with if God so intends.
I'd love to find someone I can draw closer to while spending time doing mutual activities (travel, working out, cooking, shopping, hanging out with friends/family or just relaxing whether it be poolside, mountainside or sofaside(?)).
Some things I like: golf, snorkeling, photography (see profile pics that I'm not in), vanilla chai tea lattes, seafood/sushi, naps, my backyard, cold watemelon on a hot summer day, diet coke, desserts, corn on the cob, shopping on a cold, crisp winter night, church, tennis and Rubio's fish tacos!
I'm not perfect (I like the Dallas Cowboys...lol), but strive to learn in life and continue to grow in order to become a better man (and husband/father someday). While perfect doesn't exist, we all have our "must haves" and "nice to haves" when it comes to relationships and there are certain things none of us want to settle or compromise on.
For me, I'm looking for someone who is Christian, loves to laugh (a bit of non-biting sarcasm is good!), have fun (playful is definitely good), keeps fit (golf is a plus!), communicates well (must have) and is comfortable/confident in who she is. If this sounds like you...drop me a line and we can go from there. God Bless.
**As a side note, I've had some people wink at me that I found I was not interested in, so I thought I would be polite and respond via the auto generated system response (thought it doesn't show what it says). Apparently the response is somewhat cold or harsh as I received an email back from someone that didn't have very nice things to say. Therefore, if you wink at me, I may not respond back. Please don't be offended, but apparently trying to be polite was only making it worse....who knew!? My apologies to anyone I offended and best wishes to all in their search!

Date a man from United States. 40 year old father of 2. I have been all over and done everything. I like quiet nights at home and also like to go out once and a while, it just all depends on the mood. I have been told I am a very loyal friend. I am drama free and have a great relationship with my ex-wife which we both decided was the most important thing we could do for our kids. I work a job that is fun and rewarding but sometimes takes a lot of my time.
I am very independant and love "me time" but at the same time love to spend time with my family and friends. Would love to find someone who would make me want to give up some of my "me time."
I split kid time with their mom so I have them 50% of the time and sometimes more. During the school year we do what ever is best for the kids when it comes to who they are with but stick to a consistent weekend schedule. My kids mean everything to me and most of what I do revolves around them and their well being.
I really do not know what to say and am just kind of rambling on. Basically, I am a good guy, who is loyal, a great friend and trys to treat everyone with respect. I am also a great dad and my kids always come first. Like I said I am rambling on and am really much more interesting then this makes me sound. Email me if you would like to find out more.

Meet people from United States. Ok, let’s start with getting the basics out of the way:
1. I own my own home and don’t live with my parents.
2. I have a career and not just a job and I don’t collect welfare.
3. I don’t have any diseases and I don’t use drugs.
4. I’ve never been arrested or served time.
5. I have my own transportation and not a bus pass.
From what my friends tell me, that already puts me in the 1% category! Ok, but seriously, I hope that I meet someone with slightly higher standards and expectations than the above, so here’s a bit more:
1. I am a physician and I love what I do, but not always where I do it. That being said, I don’t think I’m the typical physician and I really don’t let my career define me. It’s important, but not everything I bring to the table (hopefully).
2. I keep myself physically fit and love to be active. I run, cycle, and swim and I’m hoping to get to the level of a half ironman at some point. I eat healthy, but I do enjoy food and trying new places. My whole thing is quality, not quantity, so I’m not likely to be seen at a buffet trough.
3. I have a close relationship with my family. They have been there for me through some really rough times and I want to do the same for them.
4. I am a pretty even tempered person and I rarely lose it. I can be either an introvert or an extrovert depending on the situation. I’m always up for anything and think that any situation or experience can be fun with the right person. Museums, movies, concerts, lectures……it’s all interesting.
5. I would love to travel more and hope to find the time to do that in the future. I really want to explore more of the world that I have only read about in books.
6. I try to keep a nice appearance. I’m not a metro sexual, but I do try to dress nice and look my best when I go out. That being said, I’m also good just throwing on a hat and some shorts on the weekends and getting out. Either way, I don’t think it’s ever taken me more than 10-15 minutes to get ready, but I don’t expect that same time frame from my partner…..girls clearly have more “rituals” than guys in that regard, and I’m pretty easy going about that stuff.
7. Yes, I am divorced and have two children. I know that’s a deal breaker for some women and that’s ok. You have to be true to yourself. All I can say is that I never planned on being divorced and sometimes two people just aren’t meant to be. As for my kids, they live in another city and I don’t see them as often as I like, but I try to be as involved as I can. I’m not looking for a mom or caretaker for them. I can manage that on my own. While they are definitely a big part of my life, you are dating me, not my children. I tend to keep them out of the picture as far as that’s concerned.
What am I looking for? I don’t really have a list, but I’m not looking for anyone to complete me or make me happy. I’m capable of that on my own. I would like a best friend and someone I can be myself around. Someone who shares some of my same interests would be nice, but someone who is different enough to expose me to different things is also a plus. Anyone who says looks aren’t important is lying, but I don’t think I really have a type. I just want to feel a connection with the person I’m with. Ok, maybe that’s dorky, but I think you know when there’s a spark and I’m not sure it’s something that you can fake or develop.
So if anything I’ve said sparks your interest, drop me a note and let’s talk!

Date single man from United States. Must have a great first connection with many things in common. Must be attracted to each other and make the other person laugh.
I am an athletic male who is obsessive about working out. Clean cut with good moral values. More to come

Meet a soulmate from United States. My two children are my life right now. My son is six and my daughter just turned four in May. I enjoy going to church and this has become a very important part of my life. My job requires me to work varied hours but it also allows me the flexibility to spend time focusing on my children when I have them. I have been through quite a bit in the past couple years and have a new found appreciation for my family and friends. I can be pretty sarcastic at times and would love someone with a terrific sense of humor that does not take herself too seriously. Just took my daughter to Disneyland for her birthday and we had such an amazing time together. I'm looking to expand my life by experiencing things that I may have put off in the past. I recently completed the Basic Rider Course and earned my motorcycle endorsement. Now I'm looking to get a motorcycle to use for not only getting to and from work but for those moments when I just want to go for a ride. I would love to travel more and really would like to find someone special to hang out with and get to know better. Loyalty and perseverance are important to me as life can be tough at times and quitting is not an option to me. You must love kids as my children are extremely important to me. If you're interested at all, shoot me an email and maybe we can meet for lunch, dinner or a coffee.