Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Ajo, 44 year old

Date a soulmate from Arizona, United States. My nest will soon be empty, my baby factory closed for good. I love the kids, though, I am maximum clown about town most of the time, and kids give me the most freedom for my silly side. I am a long time volunteer for youth and hope to get a schedule arrangement that gets me back on the T-ball field, soon.
I work nights and weekends probably always will, armed security/dispatch. I am NOT 420 friendly and those with family ties to criminals, as can be common in this town, should look at different profiles.
I am returning to college, 64 credits and counting. Currently attending the local EMT class on Saturdays with intent to become a Paramedic. I still do not know what I want to be when I grow up.
The major thing on my mind these days is my fitness before I am old. I've had a lifetime of hidden physical disability and spent last year as a guinea pig trying to find something that worked. Now that I do have a treatment program that works well enough without dragging me into the city every single week, I'm in a condition to push harder than I ever have.It's also improved my sense of humor and general mood in ways I can never really describe. Anyone local who just wants to be an activity partner for a little fitness push, just give me a wink and I'll send my email.
For the time being, I have obligations in Ajo, almost daily, and with no time frame on when that will change. If you aren't living or working here, or in Gila Bend, then I doubt I will find time for you.
I've never been in love, I am not a romantic by any stretch of the imagination, and while I would like to experience that, I guess I don't expect it. It would be a lovely surprise, though.
I am very easy to find, and a man with a spine who can say "hello" is amazing to me.
I am not here just to create more difficulties for myself. I have trunks full of my own baggage and I carry it all brilliantly. I don't mind that someone else has baggage, I just want to see accountability and responsibilty for it.
I just bought a fixer upper and other land in Ajo. I am long term resident here and now, officially invested. Very occupied with the moving and initial fixing for livability.