Date men and women from United States / Alabama / Newton, 35 year old

Date men and women from Newton, United States. I am a social butterfly I like to being doing something most of the time. I enjoy being with friends and family. I want to be with someone that makes me smile, I am not a very clingy person or so I have been told...I am often told to let my guard down, I sometimes have a hard time letting a person in but when I do I can be very affectionate and caring person. I like a gentlemen someone who opens doors for me and makes me feel good....the smallest things in life make me the happiest.
I want someone who takes care of them selves...I work hard to stay in shape and I expect the same....If you are hung up on your ex or have commitment problems....please dont contact me!!! Men seem to think that women are the ones who play games...but I seem to think otherwise. I am a very independant girl, I dont need a man I want a man. In other words I dont always want to be the man and woman at my house...there isnt much I cant do ....but I would love for someone to step in and HELP me do things...