Date men and women from United States / Alabama / Mulga, 36 year old

Date single man from Alabama, United States. I'm a 36 yr old divorced father of 2. I'm looking for a lady who is interested in friendship first and maybe more later. I am totally a 1 woman man. It's been 15 yrs. since I've been on the dating scene but I feel I still know how to treat a lady. I,m about 285lbs. but am hitting the gym and exercising to get that down. I hope to find a lady who doesn't care about looks alone and who doesn't mind being pampered with back and foot massages. Hope to meet some great ladies soon!