Date men and women from United States / Alabama / Decatur, 53 year old
Date someone special from Decatur, United States. my match, just that special person in my life.to enjoy some of the good things that life has to offer. spending quailty time together and become the best of friends. i enjoy movies.weekend traveling.dineing out or in. with a little soft music maybe,just maybe this is going somewere.
Meet a soulmate from Decatur, United States. Pretty much like to keep to myself. I am not a real big communicator. Love to keep secrets and will tell a lie to keep from hurting you. In love with another woman but love to be with others behind her back. If you dont mind being second to her let's hook up
Date single man from Decatur, United States. My friends describe me as fun, loyal, hard working, hard playing, a little sarcastic (and sometimes a LOT sarcastic) and overall an easygoing, laid back, and fun to hang out with guy. For the most part, I usually have to agree with them, especially when I'm paying them big BUCKS to speak so highly of me! Seriously, I love to laugh and can usually find humor in most any situation or circumstance and I find a light hearted approach is almost always more successful than than an antagonistic one (really better if your foe is bigger than you!) I can be very serious if call for and when I need to, I can usually do whatever is called for to get the task or job done. I enjoy many activities and I particularly like keeping things working around the house, my car/truck and several other "man toys" one accumulates over time. I usually aproach my "need work" projects thinking Iknow much more about it than it turns out I really do, creating a sometimes frustrating, but always humorus (to those observing) response. Kinda like writing a profile late, really late and reading it the next day only to find it hardly says what you thought when you wrote it. Which is what I will find out tommorrow. NiteyNite, more later!
Meet a man from Decatur, United States. I like to have fun, travel, explore new things, places, people, and cultures. love to laugh. I have traveled throughout the world. don't like complainers. honesty is essential. Like to put my thoughts into positive development. Not dwell on the bad.
Date men and women from Decatur, United States. "There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living."
I want to lay down each night and think: "Today was a good day, I would do it again if I had the chance"
I am, by choice, a simple person. Khaki shorts and a polo shirt, Jeans and a t-shirt. I do own a tie, but I would have to look for it.
I am a father of three. A 25 year old who has blessed me with two wonderful grandchildren, as well as a 15 year old daughter and an 11 year old son who will, for now, be living with their mom. I have unlimited access and spend a lot of time with them.
I am a Christian - sometimes a bad example of one, but Christian nonetheless. Not perfect - just forgiven.
I am self employed (for almost 20 years) which gives me a lot of flexibility but also a lot of responsibility. I am passionate about my job and I take it seriously. I take a lot of things seriously like: my responsibility as a father, doing the right thing and caring for other people. Most of all I take FUN seriously. "If you are not having fun you are just wasting time!"
I take HONESTY seriously. I will not lie to you to get what I want, to cover for something I have done or even to keep from hurting your feelings. I ask for the same in return. If you have to be dishonest about any aspect of your life to be accepted by another person, that relationship is doomed from the start. I am not perfect, I don't ask for perfection - just REAL-ness.
My ideal match would:
have to (or at least want to) LOVE LIFE!
Be "pretty" because of the person they are not just because of the way they look.
Be spontaneous. "FLEXIBILITY" is a survival skill in my world.
Understand that my love for and the time that I spend with my children is not "competition," it is an unconditional part of who I am. Join us, laugh at us or leave us alone - just don't try to come between us. The wonderful thing about "love" is that there is no limit on how much a person can give away. You can't love your kids so much that there isn't any left for others in your life.
Be open and fair. Be willing to discuss expectations and set rules that apply EQUALLY to both of us. Total HONESTY (there is that word again) saves a lot of misunderstanding and heartbreak.
Be realistic. I am single again after 16 years, the last several of which were tough. I am not looking to rush back in to THAT type of a situation again. I do not really like the thought of growing old alone. I would like to find a “soulmate” to spend forever with, but it is not going to happen this week. I am not a “one night stand" kind of person by any means but I am not ready to rush in to anything.
Fun, friends first and forever, see what develops.
Meet people from Decatur, United States. I live an honest and easy going life . Enjoy going new places to see what they have to offer , they are all around us waiting to be appreciated . Would be great to have someone special to share them with .
Date someone special from Alabama, United States. I've spent my life attempting to improve myself through education, trying different things, meeting new people, working hard, playing hard and probably several other descriptive terms. I've made more mistakes than I can count and some not so little. I enjoy life. I tell my kids it is better to do than to have.
Some people have said that I am "looking". I think there is some truth to that. As much as I argue that I'm a realist, likely I lean to the romantic side. I think that special person, place or experience is worth the effort and I believe the possibilities are there.
I enjoy the outdoors. I believe in being fit. My work keeps me in the air-conditioning at a desk most all the day. It is not stress free..so I enjoy getting outside. I love to play tennis. I also like to work in my yard...though the less brain power I have to use the better.
I have two kids that live with me. They are my driving force and I am protective of them. To that end I'm not looking to jump into some commitment but would enjoy making a special friend who is patient and looking for a laugh...then thinking about possibilities.
I believe in physical activity. I think it adds so much in so many ways. I believe it extends lives as well as the quality of life. It positively impacts our appearance, our abilitiy to cope with stress, improves our health and also think it can contribute to our abilitiy to interact socially.
From what I've written above one might get the idea I'm outgoing..and in a cautious sort of way I guess I am. In other words I feel compelled to stay in some comfort zones. I'm not big on night clubs but don't mind cozy bars. I enjoy one on one or small groups of friends versus parties. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy the experience of a popular night spot...its just not something I do out of habit. I would rather share a movie a drive in the country, a nice dinner, a glass of wine or a nice conversation.
When it comes to what I'm looking for....I guess I can list some things I think might be good but I'm really not confident that I know. More probable my romantic side kinda thinks that certain things work together to give the feelings that drive a relationship. Maybe that is called chemistry.
I said I would describe ...to begin I'll steal from Louis L'amour. Some of his wild west characters said they looked for someone who would walk beside...not leading or lagging. The person I think this describes is someone who will take-up for themselves, tell me when I'm wrong...be honest. Conversely I don't think this describes someone who is controlling or manipulative.
I can't go much further but would add that appearance is important. Not looking for a beauty queen but would like to find someone reasonably confident in their appearnce and sensuality.
I presently attend a Methodist church. I am not as involved with my church as I probably need to be. I've recently increased my involvement (still lacking though) and have a renewed resolve that religion is an important part of our lives.
I guess I'm about done. I actually did a better job with this edit last night then for some reason lost all I'd written. I think I captured most of what I intended though. We all have unique situations. If you are out there and I've managed to stir your curiosity drop me a note.. otherwise I"ll be looking.
Meet a soulmate from Alabama, United States. WOW this is hard... any help out there??? i am one of those people that can have fun doing anything, all the better with someone.
Also a workaholic, good or bad. Ever heard the term "work hard play hard," well my hand just went up, that's me! i like to get everything done then go play.
Looking for someone that enjoys life. Even tempered without drama (my buddies tell me there is no such thing as "no drama women" but i don't beleive them). It would be great if the person could travel some, it gets boring being on the road by yourself, not a must, but would be nice.
I like going out to a fine dinner, maybe a play. the next day put something on the grill sit by a fire and just chat. from tux to jeans, no problem.
I'm not on here to play games, i have monopoly board in the closet ; ) . i would just like to meet someone that is secure with themselves and at a point in their life to move forward.
Date single man from Alabama, United States. i work alot thru the week and try to enjoy my weekends off. i like going out to eat at good resturants. i try to be easy going and get along well with others. I like animals of all kinds.... i don`t do snakes... no no.
i am looking for a kind sincere woman... that`s all.
Meet a man from Alabama, United States. I'm a laid back person for the most part..pretty intense in business however. So would like meet someone that understands while working I'm one tracked . While off I'm all yours. The lady for me would be quick witted, intelligent, and be her on person. One that is spontaneous for the quick weekend get away, yet can plan an evening for clients. Comfortable in jeans and that "little black number" and not afraid to get dirty....remember I do have horses...LOL Hopefully this will be enough for someone to get a breif picture of me...LOL...
Date men and women from United States. I am looking for someone to enjoy life with. I have traveled all over the world and have found that friendship is the best gift a person can receive. I enjoy spending time with friends and family, watching and going to Alabama football games, and traveling.
Meet people from United States. Positive Independent Confident. A woman who knows who she is and Whose she is. I will never ask someone to do what I am not willing to do! I have learned to be open from the begining - lead with your heart, but don't let your mind get overwhelmed by the feelings from your heart. Proceed with caution. I am Funny and serious, loving and I know how to pamper my man.
