Date men and women from United States / Alabama, 41 year old

Date people from Alabama, United States. Me in a paragraph is always difficult, but here we go…I am a network administrator, but when I grow up I want to be a National Geographic photographer. I’m crazy about photography and the art behind it. But my main passion is my son. He is my hero. His smile keeps me smiling.
I have had many friends describe me as a caring and honest person with a passion for life and its experiences. True. But to me, that passion is best spent sharing with others, especially someone you care about. And when that person cares for you as much as you care for them, things are just that much better. Things can get a little silly with me sometimes, but your time is suppose to be spent well.
My office uniform is generally jeans and a button down with casual shoes. But I really love my off hours uniform of jeans, t-shirt and flip flops. Much more comfortable, in my opinion. Speaking of opinions, I have strong opinions on some subjects, but really enjoy listening to others’ opinions too., my mind can grow and learn from those opinions and life experiences.
As for my ideal match, I don’t believe I know the answer to that. It takes two to make a match. And no one is perfect 100% of the time. The only thing I can truly say is I cannot accept lies. I’ve been through enough of them. So, if you are honest, loving and caring with a lust for life, then you and I could be an ideal match…Or not. But no matter what, you won’t get lies, only opinions, from me. I'm old fashion , it's a southern thing.

Meet a man from Alabama, United States. This is what I want.....
Dig if you will, the picture
Of you and I engaged in a kiss
The sweat of your body covers me
Can you my darling, can you picture this?
Dream if you can a courtyard
An ocean of violets in bloom
Animals strike curious poses
They feel the heat, the heat between me and you......
Who am I?...... Describe myself? K!.....I would describe myself as stable in my career and goal-oriented. I teach at a college. I am a loving father. I enjoy making people laugh. I am intelligent and can carry on meaningful conversations. I care about other people's feelings. . . When I'm with someone special, I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, surprising them with little gestures, sensual, playful, and basically having that type of fun you see two people who just met in the movies having! Someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with! I'm looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires someone who they can connect with . . . I feel there has to be a mutual physical attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. So taking care of yourself is important, as well as being sensual and affectionate . . . Having some similar interests helps a lot. Some things I enjoy are fine dining, walking at the beach at night, going dancing, watching movies including foreign films, traveling, reading a good book, going on day trips to local attractions, having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having a blast together. . .
Btw...I don’t have a clue what most guys like because I am not most guys!!!!

Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. Random thoughts...
When I get something out of a vending machine (rare) I almost always leave the change because I know how excited people get when they think they "won" some extra money back.
I recycle, shop with cloth bags, have a membership with The Center for Biological Diversity, and buy organic food when I have the opportunity. Yet, I drive a truck. Seriously, figure me out...
I sing when I drive. I sound gooood.
I believe the single most important quality in the people you let get close to you is loyalty. If you were to ask my close friends what is the best quality about me, its loyalty.
Personality-wise, I'm a rather complex cross of select attributes from Red Forman, Bear Grylls, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Beaker (the Muppet) and about a dozen or so others that you'll just have to figure out along the way.
I believe I can learn a lot about you by looking into your eyes.
I just bought a running stroller (used, recycle!). No, I don't have any curtain climbers but rather I want a way to fetch groceries via foot power (see my training goal below). I can hear it now..."Awww, that's such a cute...um, sir, that's a watermelon in there." Yes, I'm very proud.
I see most things in life as very black and white. When it comes time to pick sides, there is rarely any doubt about which side I'll be on. If I had lived in the Old West, I would have carried a badge and a Colt Peacemaker. Maybe not the badge. Maybe two Colts.

If we get to the point that we know each other well, I want you to bring crackers to bed and eat them. This will be the famous Would-I-Kick-You-Out-of-Bed-for-Eating-Crackers Test, and is very important.
I'm looking for that feeling like I've known you before. A feeling like "home." I've felt it before and I won't settle for less ever again.
I don't like Vegas, Disneyland, McDonalds, Wal-Mart, Starbucks, hominy, Adam Sandler, Rush Limbaugh, Judge Judy, cruises, people who talk during the National Anthem, golf, video games (however, I rock at strip Pong) reality TV (except The Amazing Race, which I would WIN if I ever got on). I don't wear flip-flops, baseball caps backwards, Elton John sunglasses, t-shirts with the arms cut out, or say phrases that end with the word "on" (like "let's get our grub on").
I like Telluride, Southwest Airlines, spicy V-8, cheese, muscle soreness, the smell of decaying leaves, furry critters, stars, wind through aspens, music with soul, natural peanut butter, Betty White, Jackson Hole, imagination, scars, basil pesto, pretty much anything that follows "hey y'all watch this", Lonesome Dove (the movie), Whac-A-Mole, underwear just out of the dryer, darkdark chocolate, Q-tips, wanderlust, gypsy souls, tailgates, muscadine wine, maps, good back rubs, and a hint of perfume that makes me want to get closer and find the exact location of application.
I don't have good rhythm, but I'll never admit it or give up pretending I do.
Some oddities: I don't float. I never get the hiccups. I had six wisdom teeth (now in a jar!). Once upon a time, I would eat an entire apple pie for breakfast. The only thing I collect: stamps in my National Parks Passport. I believe in magic, karma, ghosts, and aliens. Sasquatch is a little iffy. I'm a newly minted vegetarian. Mmm, soy. I am training for a 50-mile ultra-marathon. I never use umbrellas. My eyes sometimes change colors. I don't own a TV.
I'm not the least bit afraid of growing old or dying, but I'd rather not do either just yet.
I don't believe in "all things in moderation." I do believe in balance. Sometimes.
FYI, I do not respond to winks.
If you have made it this far, that's a good sign. I'm not looking for my mirror image, you can hate some of my "likes" and love some of my "dislikes." Mostly, I want you to be deep, have character, be active and fit, have a sense of adventure

Meet someone special from Alabama, United States. I am an easy going guy that just likes to have fun. I have lived in Birmingham for 8 years. I enjoy travel, beach, hanging out with friends and family.
I am looking for a woman that is fun, ambitious, honest, loving and all the other things we all look for in a life partner, but I want her to capture my attention and I want to capture hers! I want someone that will always keep my best interest at heart, because I would do exactly the same!

Date single man from Alabama, United States. I would like to spend quality time watching movies and talking to someone special hoping this would turn into something special. I am very passionate about football and would love to spend my Saturdays and Sundays with that special person towatch them with me

Meet men and women from Alabama, United States. Who am I?
I am a Southern Christian gentleman, Alabama farm born and raised, then moved to the city after High School. I don't dip or mud ride, but I do say yes ma'am and yes sir and I have manners. Been known to fish though. I live with a few live animals. Family is important to me and I consider my closest friends to be family.
I've been told I'm smart and pretty quick-witted and that I should have been a comedian, a lawyer or a comedic lawyer (is that a job?). I don't know about all that but I do enjoy making people laugh and having a good time. I'm easy going and quick with a smile. I am a MAN, yes a gentle-man but a man and if you are looking for a wuss who can't make a decision, I'm not your guy.
Hobbies
I enjoy reading. Lately some entrepreneurial books also some thrillers. My life is not a perpetual orbit of my couch, but if my favorite shows are on I will watch some TV. I enjoy watching movies. I have a Wii that I play with my kids.
I like going to the beach (build a great sand castle) and to the mountains (ski like a fool). I enjoy exploring, going to new places, trying new restaurants and foods. Recently, I've become quite a sushi enthusiast, who knew it was so good?
I enjoy listening to classic rock as well a lot of other current music that's not too rap, and I like some country. My kids are often surprised/embarrassed when I know/sing the lyrics to the songs they like.
I cook a bit, and am teaching myself more. My kids tell me I can cook a mean breakfast, I agree. I can even make you fried eggs if you get tired of scrambled. And who doesn't?
Who I am looking for?
In 3 words, a lady, a partner, a love.
I'm not obsessed with looks, but attraction is either there or it isn't. In my experience, external beauty is sometimes utterly negated by inner ugliness. To put it the way my Mamaw did, "pretty is as pretty does".

Date people from United States. she is going to be herself,real and confortable for who she is.Im honest and kind to others,i love my dogs and my family and people who are kind to others,well guess you will have to get to know me to find out the rest.

Meet a man from United States. I’m a very caring compassionate and passionate person. Family and friends are very important as well as honesty. I enjoy the little moments of affection like scratching some ones back rubbing their head until they fall asleep. Midnight boat rides on the lake. Sleeping underneath the stars. Anything that leaves a pleasant mental picture for life. I am a hopeless romantic. I love to write and read poetry. Im easy to find if you have a "face" and like to read a good "book" if you know who mary was married to and the island that immigrants came to when coming to america. Those are your hints. Anything else you would like to know message me.

Date a soulmate from United States. I think this is where you're suppose to brag on yourself so here it is, I'm a one girl man, I work for a living, I have 2 kids well teenagers, my son 17, my daughter 14, I've been married one time and that was 10 years ago, I'm still single, still looking just have had some hard luck with dating, I really would like to find someone but it aint that easy, so I'm trying this, I do like to have fun when I can pretty basic guy who lives a basic life,( I dont date outside my race and I'm looking for a girl who dont) To be totally honest my days consist of going to work then to the gym then home and on the weeekends I splurge when I can I work crazy hours so I need a girl that is willing to deal with my work hours, I'm a good guy in need of a good girl, faithful and willing to put me first in her life as will I put her first, and take care of her as a man should, although I love my kids to the extreme my woman is my life as well, I do like to go fishing, sometimes i deer hunt also I'm fan of ALABAMA CRIMSON TIDE, UFC,The TV show's Redneck Island, Gator Boys, and Tanked If you're reading this and want to know more ask me.. ROLL TIDE! National Champions 2011

Meet someone special from United States. I am mostly quiet and shy. I listen to people talk more than i do but please have something good to say. Ha, Ha. I am not a big, social person sometimes i have to be coaxed to step out of my norm and usually go along. I spend time in the country with family and great friends the few that i have are the best around and would give you the shirt off their backs. I like spending time with someone at home or usually running around places getting things done. I have sense of humor so please have one too and don't take everything so personal, sarcasm is a second language to me. I am a hunter from Oct to the end of Jan. so you may not see me much on the weekends unless you hunt also then you can go along. I would like for you to have things to do also but this doesn't mean you run in bars....no party girls please. I am looking for a woman not a child and this doesn't rule out that we wouldn't continue to do things with each other during hunting either. (Had to spell that one out) No drama and all the other bs please, I am not looking for my soul mate right now, that will come once you get to know someone. Mostly looking for a decent woman to go to dinner, hang out with and get to know. If anything happens it does but it must go slowly.....seriously. Please pay attention to my profile and what i am looking for. I am NOT a party person, going to bars and getting drunk is a major turn off and not my style and should not be yours. I do not mind going out eating dinner and having maybe a drink or two, so don't misunderstand but i am not a drunk. More to develop later...... If i missed anything please add (, . : ; " ' .... )

Date single man from United States. I am a hard-working, mature, funny, and simple person. I like to have fun when it is time for fun, but I know when to be serious. I am a very affectionate person as well. My friends would say that I am a goal oriented person.

Meet men and women from United States. Hello, thanks for looking at my profile! I am looking for a great person to hang out with, do common interests, new things, share funny stories, meet new friends, go places, laugh and enjoy time together.
AS FOR AS ME I AM VERY SELF SUFFICIENT, HEAD STRONG, COMMITTED AND FOCUSED ON WHAT I DO AND INTERESTS. MY IDEAL MATCH NEEDS TO BE SECURE WITH HERSELF AND NO DRAMA, JUST A REAL GENUINE PERSON WHO IS WILLING TO BELIEVE IN THERE NEW FRIEND FOR THE COMMON GOOD OF ALL INVOLVED. IF YOU ARE THE JEALOUS TYPE THEN PLEASE DONT WASTE YOUR TIME HERE, DOESNT MEAN THAT I AM LOOKING TO SHARE MYSELF WITH ANOTHER WOMAN, IT JUST MEANS THAT I AM A VERY GENUINE GUY WHO IS IN THE PUBLIC EYE IN MANY DIFFERENT SETTINGS HOWEVER I AM A ONE WOMAN MAN. I HAVE A FEW CLOSE FRIENDS, Real Friends ; LOOKING FOR ONE ADDITIONAL CLOSE FRIEND TO SPEND TIME WITH AND MAYBE MORE IF THERE IS COMMON INTEREST. NOT A FWB, SO IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR DRAMA, PLEASE KEEP LOOKING, I AM VERY SRAIGHT FORWARD, AND TO THE POINT. I HAVE 2 BEAUTIFUL KIDS IN MY LIFE, THEY BOTH ARE VERY VERY IMPORTANT TO ME, THEY WILL BE MY FIRST COMMITMENT, THEY WERE HERE FIRST!!!!
However if you do have children, love them and work for the betterment of your kids, can laugh, be spontaneous, confident, clean, know how to be a companion and realize that life does have bumps in the road, then I would love to chat or meet!
MATURITY AND HONESTY IS SOMETHING THAT IS VERY VERY HARD TO FIND ON MATCH REGARDLES OF THE AGE, I AM IN SEARCH OF IT!!!!!!!
On the flipside of that coin I am actively looking for a great person who can fit the profile above, function on there on, be dedicated to her friends, however not forget their family either, but basically a got it together person who has had a set back in there life and learned from it. Someone who loves kids and understands them. One that can be happy out, or just as happy at home. Spontaneous is a key element, doesnt mean that we wont be responsible just that everything doesnt have to be wrote on a sheet of paper with the rules of the day above!!!!! lol
True friends is what I am into, not good timers, drama promoters, misery kings and etc. I believe a true experienced adult can definitely relate to these topics!!!!! I believe that friends is the foundation to a lasting relationship!!!!!
In short this is me, a hard working realistic person who doesn't hunt, only fish once in a while, never done drugs, never smoked, faithful, normal, down to earth caring person!!!!!!! I like to travel, seeing and experiencing new places, riding 4 wheelers, AUBURN FOOTBALL, tailgating, music, entertaining, grilling out, hanging out with friends, and Simplicity!!!! lol
Please have all your teeth, lol Be WHO you say you are, use good hygiene, and be drug free!!!!
Pictures are simply an illusion, but they are priceless and worth millions ! JLD
I am a big guy!! I am 6 FT 6, wide shoulders, big frame, masculine legs, and need to lose about 20 lbs!!! So I am by no means a lil guy, I am very clean, football build, nice, affectionate man that has periodic manicures and pedicures! ! Lol I give off a very secure feeling to those around me!!!
I love music, I play it and entertain with it!! I listen to 80's to the newest out!!
And I do drive a truck FYI ! From Ford F250's to bigger vehicles.
If you like me or what you have read then say so!! Confidence is very attractive!! I to appreciate old time values, but this is 2012!! So that being said I am searching for a confident lady that isn't scared of what she wants or likes!! It is a 50 50 chance!!!
So save us both time, say what you mean and mean what you say!!!!"
I DO LIVE IN THE CITY LIMITS OF AUBURN ALABAMA!!!!!!! THERE IS ALWAYS A GAME THAT SOMEBODY IS PLAYING ON HERE, BUT WHERE YOU LIVE IS A LIL MUCH!!!!!!!! LOLOLOL
JLD

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